Hi, Im a 41 year old single father that has for a long time known I guess that Im bi.... Ive denied this to myself for a long time and dont know why. I dont know how to think I mean it would hurt my job and my relationship but i cant stop thinking about pleasuring a man. I know i want to give oral and the thought of anal really turns me on but Im not sure I want oral given and to give anal. the thought of this never happening depresses me but Im scare and dont want to hurt my kids.... my life. Help?
If we all lived only for our jobs and our relationships (tho, you say, you are a single father) our lives would be very sad, forlorn stories. There is life beyond work and certainly there is a whole universe filled with life beyond the point of caring what the others may think of us and our actions. At times, discretion is needed, and your business has to be your business only. Over the time, if you feel that a more substantial change is needed, go for it. KD
I am 10 years younger then you and have been in long term relationships with women but I have a strong desire to give oral and I did just recently to a friend of years which made it very casual and I wasn't worried about it getting around. I don't have a desire to be in a relationship with a man just give oral and I have no problems with that and for someone that is married or in a relationship. We go camping or something like that and what happens on vacation stays there and it has worked well for me. good luck with your decisions
Im not looking to blow a friend or a buddy. I looking for a new friend i guess one that can be a friend and a sexual partner.. Is CL the best way to find someone? or these forums? I guess I need my hand held through the start of this part of my life.
I would suggest neither, get out there and met somebody. There's a whole world outside your window, you just need to get the ball rolling.
Well thats the hard part... full time job kids (no mother in the picture) and a GF. I know Im making excuses... Were would a person go to meet other bi men?
Why don't you try an actual dating site? Personally, I've had success with Plenty of Fish, and most of my friends have as well. Try making a profile on there and let us know how it goes. Good luck to you!
Awesome! Pof is hard at times (especially when people don't respond to your messages) but don't give up on it. Good luck to you!
