hi my bf and i have been daiting for almost two years and we are going offerent schools next year and i just want to make sure he still wants me so is there any advice to make him want me more like in anyway bc its like he never listens to me and when im serious he just jokes around and it kinda hurts so how do i make him want me again so i know we will stay together?
you cant force someone to like you more or again. You have to let everyone make there own choices. And if his is to move one then so let it be and just do the same and find someone that does care about you the way you want them to.
You're basically asking advice for how to control the will, thoughts and emotions of another person. The only advice any of us can seriously give is: You're wasting your time.
There's no secret potion in keeping a relationship strong - just a lot of hard work. You say that you're both be going to different schools, and it scares you that something might happen. As the two posters before me already wrote, you cannot force somebody to care about you, to make them want to stay with you forever and not want somebody else. Teen relationships often end because of that - you're too young to have a serious relationship, and going to different schools will make everything much more exciting. Meeting new people, finding new friends, even falling in love... and it's not the end of the world. Have on mind - the answer to your question is: communicate, try to see each other often, do fun things together when you do spend time together. You never specified whether you'll be in a long - distance relationship starting next year, but if that's the case, read up more about those relationships. You will get some helpful tips on how to keep the relationships strong while being hundreds of miles away. But if you do break up, it will not be the end of the world. I wish you good luck!
