Not gay but wanna be

I haven't ever been sexually aroused by men at all. As a matter of fact, I've been told that it is impossible for me to become gay because I was born straight, but I need a friend to like a lot. Can I be gay?

 

you must of been an easy baby to get out then..

 

Why do you want to be gay, if you have no attraction to men

Is gay the new fashion?!

 

Gay post. You lose.

 

You need a friend to like alot..

It sounds like you want intimacy.
this is an issue for everyone.

lol

 

lol

 

ok ok you can have my cock, you asked nice

 

My skin isn't blue, but I want it to be.

 

I mean, I have lots of friends thats are boys, but none of them are gay. I really want sex, but I am scared of women because I just get too horney, I just really like them too much, but I get along with men faster and better easier. But I heard that genetically since I have no sexual chemestry with guys I can't become gay. Being gay is genetic and not a choice...

 

So......because you're afraid to fuck women...you want to fuck men?

Women aren't scary, they simply project the image of holding something over your head because without them, you don't get laid. But without you, they don't get laid. And contrary to popular belief, women do like sex just as much as men. It only seems that they don't because they usually can't find a man that's a good lay.

 

its quite fascinating...its a very unique notion that i have never heard before. wanting to be gay but with little to no attraction to males. and i am not insulting you, infact kudos on a great personality

 

Thank you

I am working on becoming an all around loving person, loving of animals, men, women, and everything alike. It's just that I am afraid of touching and insulting women, but I fantasize about it all the time, well I use to until I decided to reform myself. Now I only fantasize about having a wife, and kids. I am 16 though.

 

I do want to fuck women, don't get me wrong, lol, I would love to. I am just too afraid to continue when I know I have a womans interest. Even the most beautiful and sexually attactive girls that I gain the interest of I become deathly fearful that I will embarass or insult them, if I am going to embarass and insult them, I want it to be a sexual roleplay. Not IRL and such. And... the thought of fucking men turns me off, but I just seek alot of emotional crutching. I am also giving up masturbation because it is really, really dirty. I puked after founding out the effects. Now, I want to go on, move foreward, and whip the problem into shape

 

i look forward to hearing more about you...good luck in your endevours

 

Thank you enigma I appreciate your wishes and will make it a goal to inform the forum of the beneficial explanations of my ventures :coffee:

 

Inevitably you must consider children.
Do you want them?
I find most people just flat out avoid thinking about kids untill one is born.
You might find a girl and you both might think that you're not gonna have kids...
But eventually that's where it seems to turn.

About masturbation..
There's a study out there that suggests that men who have 5 orgasms a week have less chance of developing prostate cancer.
Giving up masturbation is realy hard, all it did for me was make me extremely horny and I was very distracted by this.
Though it may have some benefits like it might help you get out there and meet someone. who knows (i didn't last very long) =)

I think you wanted to be gay cause you might have felt it's a solution or clarification, but i don't think it makes it any easier to find love.

 

i can't tell if he's trolling or not, if not, all i have to say is....w t f ?

 

I'm trolling his thread professionally anyways

but only because i'm offering my ass.

 

If you're female he'll be too afraid to take the bait.