Due to the now second failed marriage attempt I have engaged in, yes I am rather young for having 2 ex-wives by the way, only 25, but military does that to you, I have thrown away the idea of going into relationships again, I have no urge to have one because I don't want to start caring for someone deeply only to have it end again. Now that I have taken on this ideal, I have had several women that I have known for a while, and a few I have only just met, asking if I want to go out with them. Back when I wanted a relationship, it seemed near impossible to find a girl to date, now that I don't want one, and have no interest in having one, the women who want to date me, or wanted to date me for a while, are coming out of the woodwork. Ladies, I appeal to you for the response, as my brother pointed out, women are attracted to guys without "agenda's" (sp?) and I am obviously not after anything when I go out to clubs. I ask you, are you attracted to the guy looking to have a relationship, just looking to score, or would you see a guy like myself, with no real interest in anything but friendship as an interest? I appologize for the grammar and spelling errors, slight headache today!