After 13 years of my wife thinking it was "teen experimentation" she finally knows, understands and semi accepts that I'm bi. This all came back out after a discussion a few weeks ago concerning the possibility of me cheating on her with a girlfriend of hers. Up until now, the only one who knew for sure I was bi (besides the guys) was my mom. Lol, kinda hard to deny it when she walks in on you and a friend naked while getting a blowjob! So, since I'm here... Where's the fun at?! LoL.
My wife surely has been able to figure out that my friends (my former sex partners whom she has met) were more than friends to me. But, I have always been a loyal partner and have been so with my wife. What happened before we married is never a point at issue with us. I think she has also figured out that two of my long time friends have a special place in my life. Actually, I have had the hots for both of them and both of them have had the hots for me also for many years. They know my situation as I know theirs and we do not cross the line. I do avoid greeting them in private as that has on accason gotten pretty hot. I think we would forgive and continue our friendship even if we should slip. Having known love on both sides of my sexuality I am a different person--very much more tolerant than many of my peers. I know that I am able to sustain and be happy in a sexual relationship with a man or a woman, but I also know that I have been very happy in two other sexual relationships with women. Fact is: I loved each of them before we ever had sex, I was more than two years in loving relationship with each of them, and, though the sex has ended I still love all five of them.
