if someone tells you: "I've been thinking and trying to do stuff that i never would usually think about or do" and you ask, like what? and their reply (after a LONG wait) is "Different foods and stuff" wtf, different foods?! whatcha think? i would have never expected a reply to be "different foods" maybe i am thinking in a sexual way lol... (btw, its from my friend who knows i am Bi, but he has a girl).
lol, he is definitely implying what you think. I've done the same thing and just chickened out at the last second about saying what I really wanted to.
I wouldn't connect "foods" with anything gay if I was in your position. But hey you understand your friend better than we do
Yeah, like he is getting tired of tuna casserole every night and wants to get his mouth on a big Kielbasa.
A similar thing happened with me and my friend he was talking about being curious and how its ok for women to touch each other and it be ok but when guys do it its not ok. it turned out he was interested in seeing my stuff and let me blow him. So I would say especially if he knows your bi just come out and ask him if he wants to try fooling around.
hey folks just an update after 7-8 months.. i have some feelings but i respect him as a friend as well. he is 23.. he still has a girl friend and we occasionally talk via text message and still hang out once or twice a month (more in the summer),..he referred to me as his "brother" and part of his life. we do have fun times hanging out when we do.. one time i told him i like skin on my potatoes and his reply was "i have skin" so at least i know he's uncut lol? he has done weird things like pinch my nipples and has told me i have good complexion and skin tone he definitely knows i really care about him, but would rather him and i remain friends than to make him feel uncomfortable by me making any kind of move. he has known im bi for a while now and i would think him knowing that would have helped him open up to me if he was actually Bi, i feel like i already did my part by tell him my sexuality from the beginning. falling in love with your own friend can be a good thing or in my case a terrible thing! but he is a very fun person to hang with but i'll leave it at that and may start looking for other friends to connect with.
Do NOT ruin the relationship... He may be Bi-curious but it sounds he has no intentions have anything more than a fling with a guy. You wanting to be a his Boy-Friend is not going to help your relationship with him. I say this because I had a "BrotheR" pronounce his "love" for me. I put an axe in that relationship because I wazn't and kouldn't look at him the same way anymore... Boytoyz and Bestiez Are Totally Different Worldz... I will luzt on a guy that a bearly know or FWB. But, when it comez to Friendz is the best I can do is jerk off together or give eachother handjobz... Nothing ZENSUAL!!! What I'm saying there should be NO wanting bang and sinfully kiss your friend... It'z just not healthy mentally for the relationship. Hopeful to be Helpful(WRRROOOOAAAAAAAARRRRRR!), BeazyT
