I really don't understand myself

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by Sexless_harpy, Apr 19, 2010.

  1. Sexless_harpy

    Sexless_harpy Member

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    I am attracted to women, I just have no real desire to have sex with them. Honestly, the thought of pussy turns me off. On the other hand I can be a regular cock fiend, but it's really hard to find a guy I think is really attractive.

    I identify as bisexual, but only parts of each it's weird. Has anyone else ever heard of something like this?
     
  2. HNW

    HNW Banned

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    Idk. I've personally never been a fan of gazing into a big, widespread pussy... but the feeling of being inside one is amazing.
     
  3. ganesha1967

    ganesha1967 barefoot bellybearer

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    The term "bisexual" has that "-sexual" part in it, making people think automatically, that anyone defining her/his personality and preference fitting that label must also be one to pounce everyone and get wet and wild at the snap of a finger.

    While I am not turned off by cock or pussy, I can very much love a person without having to have sex with him/her... And there are quite a few people of either sex whom I love, who dwell in my heart and are part of very fond thoughts and emotions, making me feel warm and happy thinking about them and being with them - and whom I haven't had sex with. They know about my preference, they share it and the feeling of love is mutual.

    And then there are the other people of either sex whom I love and with whom I get together for the very sexual part...

    Both sorts are very beautiful, wonderful and loving human beings. I wouldn't call it weird if you feel attracted to both sexes without feeling the urge to get sexual with them. It's merely your own personal way of loving, and no one has the right to call it weird, or to call you weird for being who you are.

    Wiggling toes encouragingly,

    ~*Ganesha*~
     
  4. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    I'm the same way.
     
  5. godhaunt

    godhaunt Banned

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    Love from Smolensk, White Russia (nope, I'm still having troubles with the typing)
     
  6. sidneyisinlove

    sidneyisinlove Member

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    i dunno, im bi and very attracted to pussy, just the smell and taste is a huge turn on..

    Love
    sidney
     
  7. Richard1957

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    You would like cross dressers.
     
  8. Blümchen

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    Maybe it's the way you are or maybe it's the beginning.
    Why I am telling that, is because so far I have felt attracted to only a few women so far and felt the way you did - just liked them but couldn't imagine even kissing any of them, not talking about anything else. But now I am so in love with a woman, whose smile makes me happy and I stare at her and think about the taste of her lips, about caressing her, about gentle touches.
    So now I am not so sure, if the next step wouldn't be thoughts about sex with her.
    Btw, that was a long way that took me over 5! years, to get from the first scaring thought "oh gosh I like woman!!!" to the stage I am in now - being totally in love...
     
  9. MayQueen~420~

    MayQueen~420~ ♫♪♫♪

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    Maybe you should try dating a transgendered person. Best of both worlds
     
  10. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    I love women, but I am not going to lie

    their down below can be pretty gross. You're not that weird, and personally think you aren't bisexual and actually strait.

    Loads of guys like the idea of cock. Let's put it this way, if you could do everything to your own without needing to seek out someone else, would you?
     
  11. Sexless_harpy

    Sexless_harpy Member

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    The thought of getting with a crossdresser/transsexual has crossed my mind, more often than not I think they look better than real women. The option is definitely on the table
     
  12. so.done_44

    so.done_44 Visitor

    Smell, yes...looks, usually not [although maybe I have not seen the right ones]...I just love kissing another woman and having the hands all over me, but your right a good cock is really hard to beat! LOL I made a funny...
     
  13. spexxx

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    Sounds like you need a shemale.
     
  14. IWantTo

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    Never been with a woman but have been thinking about it so much lately but I so enjoy being with my man. He smells good he feels good but so do women.
     
  15. Sam_Stoned

    Sam_Stoned Senior Member

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    I'm 100% strait and I still don't understand myself. lol your not alone :p
     

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