Getting off on the pleasure of others

I get turned on by many things, breasts, confidence, asses and feet just to name a few. Now I do not consider myself a selfless person and I do not believe women (or men) should necessarily come first in the bedroom or elsewhere, but the sexiest thing ever IMO is seeing/hearing/reading about a woman getting off especially if I'm the one satisfying her but if I'm not that's still pretty hot. It's not just her getting off that does it, but her experiencing any kind of sexual pleasure, even if its just her sharing something that gets her really hot. I know there are people who get horny by inflicting pain or seeing someone else inflicting it, and that's exactly how it is with me for pleasure. When I fantasize I'm always imagining someone else enjoying sex and what they're feeling, and that's what makes me come.

I just thought that was interesting and I wonder if anyone else feels the same way. I hear men all the time saying how much they enjoy seeing their partners satisfied, but do you really get off to her/his pleasure? or is it more out of compassion? I really feel like nothing is sexier than my partners pleasure.

 

Do you mean like if I hear a girl pleasing herself I might just start my orgasm process and squirt everywhere without touching myself? I can't do it. Though I've been around a few women that seem to get off by domination and without touching themselves.

 

No, I didn't mean to say I get off without any stimulation.