i think im late on :S

i think im late on and im really worried cause im 15 and i dont wanna get pregnant ive been hoping my period starts for about 2 days now it might still be early but im getting worried i keep getting pains like period pain but i dont have my period.
if any one can give me advise id really appreciate it.
xxsamxx

 

yups ....thats how i started off...go to a doctor and check it out...im going on Monday...im 21 and i dont want to be pregnant now

 

Ehm, I think.. wait.. keep calm.. cause I think, that these pains and that your late, it could be also because you are so worried about it.. I mean.. I was late for 10times.. 15times.. heh, I'm always late..

 

im just reall worried i dont think i can be, i normally start at the end of the month but it decides to come whne it wants i think im working my self up that i am pregnant i just hope im not

 

oooh, honey.. you're just 15.. (I know, it can sound a bit silly when I'm just about one year older than you) but you/we are really young, so it isn't anything strange we can be late on..

 

somtimes, I skip a month, so dont worry about it, i started 2 years ago

 

it might be easier said than done, but try to relax. stress can effect (read: delay) your period.

take a hot bath and focus on relaxing your muscles. the warm water will help with this. clear your head and soak for a few minutes. tell yourself you are not pregnant until you are convinced (if nothing else, this will allow you to relax).

i don't know how long you've been menstruating, but the first couple years can be real irregular. also, if there've been any big changes in your diet, sleep schedule, etc., that could make you late, too.

if you'd feel better, take a home pregnancy test. but since you're not completely sure if you're late or not, you might want to hold off a couple of days.

if you don't mind me asking personal questions, when was the last time you had sex, and what forms of birth control did you use? are your periods normally regular? feel free to pm me the answers and i might be able to figure out when you were ovulating. if you didn't have sex around the time you were ovulating, you're probably not pregnant.

if you're not sure if you're late or not, you might want to keep track of your periods. http://cyclespage.com is pretty cool for that. it gives you your average cycle length, as well as the times you're most likely to be ovulating. it also predicts your next start date, based on your average cycle length.

 

well, yeah, to reiterate what other have already said...

stress can delay your period

being young can delay your period

your period can sometimes screw up it's cycles for a few months, even if it's been completely regularl before (it's done that to me, where I had about 4 months where it was always offtime... up to seven days late and seven day early, ranging from one day long to ten, back when I was 15)

lawngirl's advice is fabulous, follow it.

 

Another kind or evil thing about it is, if you get all stressed and worried that you might be pregnant, your body will delay your period from stress! which in turn makes you even MORE stressed, which in turn screws up your cycle even more! haha, it's kinda twisted. oh but honey, don't worry, you're pretty young so your period probably won't be very regular, it can be a little "off" for the first year or so.

*love and peace*

 

lets hope the same applies for me....ehh

 

i started my period about 2 or 3 years now and about 6 or 7 months ago i became vegetarian and also my school now starts earlier and i have to get up earlier could that make it irregular???

 

ohhh no take a test-that's how you feel when you're pregnant. I know you don't want to hear it but at 15 you have no buisness having sex in the first place.

 

oh but also I never had periods more than once every six months untill i was about 19 so maybe that's why your just not doe growing yet but still take a test.

 

yes, this can totally effect things. your sleep schedule can effect things... before finals one year, i'd have to stay up all night and grab a couple hours of sleep when i could. since my "days" seemed longer, my body kind of adjested to a day being, say, 36-48 hours long. i knew i couldn't have been pregnant, so i wasn't too scared when my period was a few days late. but then i looked at the calander and my schedule... if a 'day' was the amount of time i stayed awake continuously (like if five days were ten days) then my period would have been right on time. lack of sleep also adds to stress, so if you're making a schedule adjustment to wake up early for school, thus you lack sleep, that could be delaying things, too.

that, combined with a change in your diet can effect things. if you just went veg., you might not be getting enough iron. perhaps your body is delaying your period so it can conserve the iron that's already in your blood. or at least, lose less iron.

but yeah, a change in both your diet and sleep schedule can delay your period. i hope everything turns out to be okay!

 

i feel like im supposed to be on now cause i have stomach cramps and it just feels like im on could that happen... that your on your period but it doesnt look like you are??(if that makes any sense)

 

right ive decided im gonna try and get a test but should i tell Daron (my boyfriend) about it first or should i wait to no if i am or not?
xxx

 

if you need him because you are a mess than yes if not than there is no reason to worry him untill you find out for sure.

 

Okay...it's normal when you're vegetarian, I think. I once wasn't menstruating for a half a year....But I wasn't pregnant AT ALL, it just couldn't be, for I'm still a vergen (SP!).
What are you doing doing this stuff at 15?!
I believe that vegetarians have a lower sex-drive or sexual hormones then normal meat-eaters. I know that it's true by males, not sure about females though...

BTW: are you gaining weight rapidly?

 

I get all if not more of my daily value. I take supplements just in case. I haven't been sick in a year ( minus that ONE DAY cold...). So it can't be that, and it stopped right after I became vegetarian

 

i have 1 thing to say.............IM ON!!! i started this morning ive never been so happy to actually start..whats wrong with me..lol. i did tell Daron and he said hed stay with me and help me though it and everything if i were pregnant (bless him).
XXXsamXXX