im going on a trip for a night in the poconos with some friends i only get to see a couple times a year. last time we went, i ended up hooking up with this guy who will be there this time as well. i know we will most likely end up hooking up, and last time we ran into the problem of not having condoms so we didnt have sex. i was planning on bringing some this time though just in case. anyway just my luck, im supposed to get my period that week (its the 19th-20th of june, and if i counted right/my period decides to come when its supposed to, i should get it on the 18th). i know theres not really any way to prevent it/post pone it etc if im not on the pill, and at this point i figure its too late, by the time i get an appointment and all that shit (do i even need to do that?). i dont know what else to do, ive never had sex on my period and i dont really want to do it if its the first time im having sex with this guy too. also last time we hooked up we were stuck on the floor of a loft, we didnt even get a bed haha and its not his or my house so i wouldnt want it to be really messy... anyway what would be the best way for me to go about this? another problem is last time he was really into foreplay, like he ate me out pretty much all night and it was amazing, and i dont know how foreplay in general is going to work if im on my period... sorry i kinda rambled on, any advice would be helpful. ways to either make my period come earlier or later (im open to anything, ive noticed from experience that acid fucks up my cycle) or just anything to make sex/foreplay possible/easier etc. thanks
Sex while on my period is great, its 10x better then without. But if you're worried about the mess just lay a towel down. I never had a problem with there being a mess because if you got a penis in there it pretty much keeps the blood from coming out. If he's into foreplay and he is okay with sex while on your period, just put a tampon in and he can still go down on you without getting a mouth full of blood. If you want to have sex with him then just give him a heads up that you have your monthly gift. If he doesn't want to have sex while you're on your period all you can do is respect his wishes. Some guys are okay with it and actually like it though.
Well I can offer a guys perspective hahaha. See what happens with him, and if it appears somethin is gonna happen, tell him you have your period and see what his reaction is. R u willing to fool around on your period? If so, maybe he is too. If he's that into foreplay, u can do a lot without having to have sex or interfere with what's goin on down there. But my advice would be don't do anything unnatural to yourself beforehand.
I skimmed through Jenna Jamesons autobiorraphy ahd she shared this trick that they use in the porn industry. Put a sea sponge up against your cervix. Some of the girls that you see in porn are actually having their period at the time but they have a sea spnoge absorbing the blood before it comes out. Peace Out, Rev J
looks like you'll just be givin head... n gettin ur tits sucked. lol. just tell him n c how it goes, but more likely than not, thats what will happen. or he'll ask for anal sex.
Just wondering if you have ever had sex on your rag? If not then I would not sagest your first time being the first time you do it with him. From a guys point of view I did it once and will never do it a gain. It just feels different and odd.
ive never had sex on my period. and yeah ive had sex before... im not worried about having drunk sex haha
sorry let me clarify i meant your first time with him should not be on your rag not your first time ever.......
seriously though. nothin wrong with period sex. do it in the shower if you're super-worried about the mess factor (talk to him first, once it becomes clear that things are headed in that direction.) but honestly, in my experience, and in the experience of most girls I know, laying down a towel and then cleaning yourselves off after is just fine. like somebody above said, his penis will keep a lot of the blood from escaping. as far as foreplay goes, I guess a tampon is all you can really do. like I said, talk to him about it when it becomes clear that things are going that way. figure out what works for both of you. don't let aunt flo bring ya down
Tell him bloody mary is in town and see how he reacts. Allot of guys actually like it. Just put a towel down!! Sex for me when I am on my period is awesome, really intense orgasms, and afterwards I have no cramps. Better than Midol
Sex on your period is messy and is not that great of an experience especially if it is your first time. You are usually very sensitive and wont get much pleasure out of it. If you want this guy to ever think about being with you again you will post pone that event and the foreplay. Men will usually have sex during menstruation but they kind of get grossed out about it after wards unless he is you long term partner. You can choose to please him if you want do a lot of rubbing and kissing but my advice skip the sex fro yourself the will be plenty of time for that and you want it to be a good experience not embarrassing or uncomfortable one.
