Performance anxiety is getting out of hand

so this has been going on for four years now...I used to get rock-hard practically on command, but one day I didn't, and i've been struggling with performance anxiety ever since.

I've tried various relaxation techniques and a few herbal supplements...It's gotten to the point where I'm looking into hypnotherapy, and maybe trying to take avena sativa for stress.

Physically, I'm fine. I wake up with morning wood fairly often and I can get hard while masturbating, but with a girl, it's something less than 50/50.

And no, it's not that I'm gay...I don't feel attracted to men, and whenever i have sexual dreams they always involve women.

Help?

 

it's just because your body is at ease or act like on a normal stage even on the hottest time in your life.