what do you guys do with your girlfriend

I mean, activities, I have a lot of time to waste with my friends just hanging out, but with your girlfriend, I guess you guys have some things you like to do (out of having sex)

I think that this is one of my fear about having a girlfriend, I woudnt know what to do with her, and I'm not a big talker either....so I guess that for a girl, I'm pretty boring huh

doh

 

Well for myself I personally do not have alot I would not do with her, if she is willing and able I would just keep her close as possible, the fact we are together is the fun part ,however the exploration of new and differnets things always seems to be a good choice too. I believe how my interests may be different from hers is kinda nice, i enjoy learning about her interests as she seems to of mine. gawd I love her

 

I'm not much of a talker either but it can be brought out of me ... when we're not lying around, chatting and listening to music and such together we often go out to eat and shop, etc. Last weekend we took a trip to DC and it was a blast!

 

If you don't find stuff to do or things to talk about, it will all fall apart eventually, trust me on that.

 

like Madcap said, it'll fall apart. That was one reason I broke up with my boy recently... we just did the same thing over and over again (watched a movie, had sex, left). However, if you live in the frigid cold like I do, 6months out of the year it's hard to find things to do aside from a movie/bar/restaurant, just because it's so damn cold outside.

I dunno, nice things for a guy to do... cook supper together, go out for dessert somewhere, go shopping together, go out with all your friends (multiple people helps with conversation, keeps it from getting strained at all), light candles all over your room, leave flowers at her house (delivery can be expensive afterall).... just nice sweet things. mmm.

 

it always helps if you have a gf that will actually communicate with you instead of just shrug and say whatever...

 

are you -->>

 

what? my ex needed shoes one day so we went shopping around a bit (I work in a shoe store) but he was too cheap to buy any nice shoes and all the sale ones didn't have his size. Anyways, rambling. If it's the guy who needs somethign and the girl isn't just dragging him everywhere, it isn't bad, honest!

 

*medical machine beeps and boops*
she's gone into self delusion....nurse, i need 20 cc's of reality, stat!!
god damn it man, we'll save her yet.

 

Bingo009

I am in the same situation. I met this girl online and id like to know what to do with her if we go out on sunday? I was thinking dinner and then like go to a coffeeshop.

Im not really sure what else though or even what i can talk about since ive never actually went on a date before.

I talk alot and know what to say with some people but sometimes i just dont connect very well with others or when i first meet people. Alot of girls are real judgmental too so that doesnt help much. They expect too much right away i mean guys get nervous or dont have alot to say too ya know?



Can anyone else help me out?

 

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do you live near the beach? dinner and the beach is always a good one or if you are shy and don't want to have to make conversation comedians are good and than the raunchy jokes kinda break the ice and you'll have something to talk about afterwards.

 

I live far from the beach and now it's -10 celcius out there

 

lol than dinner and rent a movie or go play in the snow-funny thing I've noticed people who live in snow very rarely play in it. If I lived in snow I would be a freak because I would just pick it up all the time marveling at it's mere existence,.

 

Me and my fiancé get drunk, listen to music, go to gigs and parties together, watch lots of SpongeBob and Star Trek, and cook for one another. Oh, we like taking showers together as well.

That's about it really; it's all good.

 

you sound just like me except I am a female. I really never know what to do with my fiancee Im not a big talker either. usually though he does the planning and the talking and im really up for whatever. so yeah but if i had to plan something to do for the day i wouldnt know what to plan.

 

my girlfriend is my girl-friend. imagine that !

 

My boyfriend and I do lots of stuff together.
We get high together, may go hang out at my house. Which would involve sex, watching tv, walking around the park... etc.
Or, we go to our friends place, get high and watch a few movies.

In the summer months its a lot more conveinent. We don't have to worry about if we have mittens, or scarfs etc. We take drives up to our cottages (they're 15 minutes away from eachother), or we go and sit at the lake and shoot the shit, draw, take pictures. Whatever comes to mind.

Occasionally, we go out for dinner, or we go to eachothers houses for dinner. We don't live together as of yet, that's plans for next year hopefully.

Anyway, I think I need more ideas of things to do with my boyfriend. I'd take suggestions.

 

Haha, I try not to have girlfriends.
Waste of time you're only gonna get hurt in the end.

 

just be urself dude if ur ment to be u shud just click ya know but yeh i guess dinner and wateva sounds cool or one i did last time i went on a date was just walked and talked it was a good night and went smoothly

kinda like wat wayne says on waynes world 1

garth : wat do you do if everytime u see this one amazing woman u think ur gonna hurl?

wayne: i say hurl, if u spew and she bolts it was never ment to be. but if you blow chunks and she comes back everything is good

garth: iv gotta be comfrortable with me first