It's funny. I've dated more girls who were raped or sexually abused than not. I had a girlfriend who's brother made her go down on him on a regular basis. She hated it when it was happening. When she heared other girls talking about it in the bathroom she got disgusted etc. But once she was able to do it on her own accord it became one of her favorite things to do. She actually fealed empowered by it. I'm not saying that you should go out and suck every dick put in front of you. But what I am saying is IF you reach a point in your healing process you should try it. I have my own abuse issues that I've dealt with and I've found that sex and certain sex acts have helped facilitate that healing process. Peace Out, Rev J
sorry to hear that.. I know you don't want to hear it. but you should if you haven't .. please get some counseling.. and regarding relationships, if he loves you he will not force anything on you.. good luck
I think for a guy to realise that if he is in a serious relationship with you and therefore he will never experience the wonderful pleasure of a blow job again is a lot to ask of someone, but if he loves you then he'll understand. Most marriages end up like that anyway, and we don't get advance warning (even though all the older guys are giving us the "I told you so"...)
I hope this does not come across as insensative, but if a guy took his dick and raped you in your mouth, why didn't you just bite it off?
And what if he has a gun? A knife? His bare fucking hands and you just bit off his motherfucking dick? Use your head dude
I don't think he'd be able to fight the chick if she just bit his dick off. he'd probaly pass out from losing so much blood. you coulda bit his dick off and yanked his balls off at the same time then shoved your arm in the open wound and ripped out his bladder and all his organs down there. yes, that was gruesome but hey you gotta do what you gotta do to defend yourself. trust me he'd be in way to much pain to do shit even with a knife. if he has a gun though then he might be able to blast her. but word of advice if any kidnapper, rapist, or whoever tries to control you with a gun fight back even if you get shot and killed it's better then letting them have their way with you. for example a guy in a car pull out a gun and says you better come with him or he's gonna shoot you and you dumb and go with him, he might take to some abandon warehouse rape you torture you and then still kill you. so you wanna take a quick shot and die or suffer a painful long death? you just never know what's gonna happen next so never play along. next off in a bathroom assault situation that I hope you called the police right after it happened. plus as gross as it sounds since you did that after he jizzed you gotta make sure to get some semen on your clothes or something so police and send it to a lab so they can get his DNA.
if i started dating a girl that was turned off of my dick like that, i would not date her. u have issues now, sort urself out. if anything, u should force urself to suck heaps of dick, and get over it girl. seek some councilling. otherwise it will effect ur whole life. face the problem head on. no one wants damaged goods. i know black dick is the grossest of the lot bahaha. im racist as hell.