how do i approach this situation

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by natacha0101, May 28, 2010.

  1. natacha0101

    natacha0101 Guest

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    so this is kind of a bit of a story. you know when you think someone is into you and your into them. but you dont really want to tell them because it would be embarassing if they didnt actually like you? well i have that situation with one of my really good friends. who is also a girl. i have really been into her for awhile now, years, and i think the feeling is mutual. problem is i havent told anyone i think im bi. she has. but if i say something and its not the case it could ruin our friendship. i would want to keep it a secret if we ever got together cause my family is super religeous. so how do i approach this situation? any advice?? :(
     
  2. gray99

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    You could do something else.
    Next time you see her when it is just you and her,no one else, slide your hand onto her neck, pull her close and kiss her.
    That usually works. If that is too much and too forward for you just tell her that you like her the next time you see her. If you don't tell her you might regret it, so just put it out there and if she doesnt feel the same then just be friends, find someone new. Be calm and friendly like usual when you tell her. Most likely that she likes you too, deep down you will know if there is something between you.
     
  3. Phil_M

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    Well, if you haven't even told her that you are bi yet, I would start with that. Once she knows your bi, if she has feelings for you, she will begin to give you signs that she is.
     

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