I think the act is really not the point here. It seems like the real discussion is whether or not its right to make any partner of either sex do something they're not comfortable with. No, its not right. How many guys can't wait to just choke on a big strap-on? Or have their butt holes reamed by one? The point is, there are guys that do. There are also girls who love having this done to them. Don't put someone in a situation where they're uncomforable just to please yourself. If its that big of a deal, go find someone who likes it. End of story
Basically, there's not always an equal trade off. Either you believe in one doing something solely for their partner, or you don't. Or in some cases, you do only to a certain extent. My question was basically that. How many felt that this is something a guy shouldn't do, even if she agrees to do it. Knowing that she gets nothing out of it, or perhaps is a bit uncomfortable with it, but still willing. Reason being, I've heard the stories where some say they "put up with", because they want to please or don't want to upset their man. Thanks for your input.
If u want to be really technical, I would say having someone do anything at all if they aren't comfortable is wrong, but obviously lifes not like that. I know my wife doesn't love everything we do, but she understands I'm a guy and therefore a perv and so she deals with stuff. Just like she deals with me leaving my shoes in the middle of the floor and not takin the trash out all the time. But if its something that clearly makes someone upset and they barely get thru it, then its not cool. Personally, I don't get turned on if she's doing somethin that I know she doesn't really like. Maybe all of us at times want to be "dominated" a little and not have to "do all the work" so to speak. It adds variety to the sex life. But women are the most beautiful creatures and any man who respects them won't force things on them. We are lucky we get any at all sometimes. Who am I to be selfish and demand more. If "face fucking" is really somethin that determines if u wanna be with someone, like say where u wanna hang out on weekends, where u wanna move to, or whether or not u want kids, then it should be laid out on the table BEFORE the serious relationship starts.
I personally feel you should not do anything to your girl she is not comfortable with. Some women like being dominated and face fucked, in that case then it's okay to do it, otherwise it's a big NO NO! My wife would hate it if I face fucked her. I'm personally not interested in that end of her digestive system anyway, I would be a lot more likely to fuck her in the ass. I personally don't like to do things in the bed room that don't make women cum. I am just a giver in sex. I really don't like receiving oral, but I will eat my girls ass and pussy all night long. I get hot knowing she gets off. I just eat her out and go straight for her pussy and if she's up for it her ass as well, my wife has a beautiful ass it's impossible for me to resist. My girl has the most intense orgasms from anal it's ridiculous. It's so much easier for guys to reach orgasm than girls. Lets be honest, most guys already have a problem in the stamina department to begin with, and getting a hot bj right before sex just exacerbates this problem. Do your self a favor, spend some time orally stimulating your chick, and spend most of your stamina engaging in mutual pleasure sex with her. I found when I did this I could last longer and my girl was able to have multiple orgasms in one session. If you love bj's then do it AFTER you give your girl an orgasm either from intercourse or oral. I find a lot of women are unsatisfied in bed, women unlike men almost need oral or some sort of clitoral stimulation to cum. Their clit unfortunately is not inside their vagina so eating the pussy I find is the best way to get a woman to orgasm.
sometimes asking for a face fuck is part of really great head sometimes it feels so damn good you just wanna fuck the hell out of her face, or you just want to let out that aggression, my point is that just because you're letting a guy fuck your face doesn't mean your blowjob is lacking in any way..it can add to it or come as a result of it already being fuckin awesome
but dear face fucking is a rape thing. it is like u r raping her . azizullah98@yahoo.com How it looks..
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If she doesn't like it then its wrong.. morally and she will not be good at it.. for my wife and I .. she loves it, but she asks for it, its never demanded. and she does sit on my face alot too.. give and take but mutal respect otherwise its wrong. IMHO