i could use some advice on what to do. my ex broke up with me after 5 years, saying i dont make her happy anymore. but i know thats bullshit cuz shes happy with me sometimes she just has bi polar, and what makes her happy one day wont the next. so anywayz she breaks up with me and is ignoring me now. wont talk to me. wont just be friends. does she just need time or do u think its really over or what should i do to win her back. im in love with her and know for a fact i dont want any other women. how do i get her to talk to me again?
No one here can tell you what's going to happen, we don't know her or the situation. If, however, she made the decision to ignore you and leave you, that's her choice. If she was smart, she would have taken her bi-polar into consideration before leaving you. Perhaps give her some space so she can decide what she wants. If that isn't you, then there is little you can do about it. Sorry, BTW, I know it sucks to get dumped, and after so many years...
it does suck and i wish there was away i could just talk to her and help her out. shes so hard headed
yeah, your girlfriend dumped me 2 weeks ago. really, there's no way for anyone here to know if she still likes you or not. doesn't really matter though. either she doesn't and it's over, or she's a crazy bitch and you can probably do better.
You need to give her own time right now,she needs to figure out what she wants to do.I know its sucks and you must be very frustrated but don't look at it as it all being over completely. I'm pretty sure she just needs to think over about the relationship and her future.In the mean time you should also do your observations and evaluations as well and when shes ready pour your heart out to her and let her know your thoughts. But don't expect anything to change,expect the worse so you wont feel rejected in any way.Be strong man!
leave her alone if she loves you she will come back to you if not then let it be and move on and find the one that works for you and is willing to stay. i know it will be hard but give it a shot.
If she tries to come back to you, absolutely insist on medication/counseling/some kind of psychological help for her as a condition.
thank you.. ive been trying to give her time..and i want to let all my heart too her at the same time...but i guess i just need to let her figure it out
i just got dumped by gf of almost a yr last week and she wont talk to me either, she said she needs time, its fuckin tough man i know, missin and lovin her still, not knowing and wanting to tell her how you feel, just take it day by day she'll probably talk to ya when she's ready
Oh, man. I started going with my first true love at 17. She said goodbye when I was 22 and in the month of June as well. Lot like you, ay. As she was beautufil, she was hooked up in no time. I never realized how much a chest could feel before that. It was hard to breathe. The ache was heavy and continuous. It lasted for a very long time. After a year I was still praying at night that she'd return. She didn't - except to visit once in a while and torture me with fleeting hope. I drank a lot. Got drunk as much as I could afford to. In the end, I got over her partially when I found a new woman to love. When that one ended I had two lost loves that hurt. But I was a little tougher for it. Then I fell for another and got married. The wife took away the past hurts for a long time. Then, after 15 years, she left. So, now I have 3 lost loves and though I get along fine through the days, in dreams I'm vulnerable still. All three come into my dreams periodically, at different times. When that happens I wake up with a heavy brick in my chest and sometimes even tears in my eyes. Those are always melancholy mornings for the first couple of hours but as the business of living is unenthusiastically accomplished, the ache fades away and the dream is forgotten. Why am I telling you my life story? Just to let you know that you're not alone. Lots of us have felt what you feel. No one who's ever lost a love ever really forgets it. But no matter what happens, with her or without, you'll laugh again, sing again, taste again. You'll be a human being. You'll be a man. I suppose I'm a 3-time loser at love and wasn't sure each time that I'd survive the pain. But I did and I wouldn't subtract any of them from my life. You know what really helps? Singing. I've developed a real affinity for sad songs and when I'm sad, I sing 'em. And watch for love number four.
