painful sex

heya, ive been sexually active for a years now, but after a break of a few months ive started up again with a new guy.
it was fine the first few times, but then all around the same time i got a bad urine infection, and now its very painful to have sex. the infection is gone but im now a shit load tighter and its still painful.

this ever happen to anyone else? or any ideas on what going on or how to fix it??

thankx

 

i think the unrinary tract infection is caused by poo. so if he stuck it in ur butt, then put it in ur vagina... then u can get it.

u answered the question urself, (ur a shitload tighter).'
does he have a big dick?

 

I dunno, I had an ex who got a serious bout of thrush once, that went but gave her bother a bit after. I know it's a myth, but she drank a lot of cranberry juice and water and flushed herself- she became much better eventually.

It will just take time, unless you did have anal and the guy above may be right.

 

Always pee after sex. It decreases the chance of you getting a UTI. and maybe the infection isn't 100% gone?

 

doesnt the bed get all wet and messy?

 

if you experience that, you should get the opinion of an expert to help you in case of medications.

 

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squirting is great... peeing, not so much.

 

ive never tried anal before, so it cant have been caused by that....

and i already pee after having sex

and the hospital said i was fixed from the urine infection, and drinking water and cranberry juice does flush out your system.

i googled it quickly and it sounded like "Viginismus", but any other explinations i am willing to read them!!

thankx for your help so far guys

 

reading into it more, it doesnt sound like viginsmus, but im thinking of trying lube, to see if that helps any

 

maybe you have an std?

 

but i havent found any that fit the description

 

you should go to a doctor and have it checked out.. bc there really are a lot of different types of vd

 

You prolly had a bladder infection, nothing you do will cause that, you don't have any VD...

 

Since you said it's verified you no longer have an infection, I'm going to say it's safe to say it's not chlamydia or vaginitis. The next most likely thing would be vaginismus. This means your vagina is "clamping up" for physical or psychological reasons at the pelvic wall. For most people, it's psychological. You anticipate it hurting like worrying about a little kid getting a shot in the arm, and it's going to hurt.

 

I HAD PAIN FREE SEX TODAY!!!!

It was great, i got him to finger me first, stretch it a little and it was smooth sailing from there!

ill keep trying that and see how we go. im still not entirely sure what it was, if it will hurt in the future, i will keep you posted.

again, thankyou everyone for your advice!

 

:redface: Whatever floats your boat, I suppose.

 

how old r u heather, im just wondering is all.

how big is his dick would u say?

 

I'm 18, but I've been "sexually active" since 15. And I'm not sure how big he is, never measured, but certainly the biggest I've ever had.

 

Ha so "vaginismus" is the clinical term for overthinking it and not being turned on enoug?

Sounds like that was it to me. The wife had issues with that early on. First impressions are important, cuz if its in the back of your mind that it hurt last time, you're not gonna be able to relax enough. Its amazing what the mind can do