I've been seeing this girl for 5 months now, she is far more experienced that me (she told me she lost her virginity at an early age) the thing is I am not that experienced, she is my first female partner. She is trying to pressure me into doing anal, I think I'm in love with her but I don't think I am really ready for that. What are some ways to tell her I'm not ready, I don't want her to be mad.
Just tell her "not ready yet". But start readying yourself, honestly. I think anal is concreting itself at an accelerated pace in business of sex. The one problem females find in girl on girl sex is the lack of intimacy between themselves because while one girl is having fun the other one in a lot of circumstances isn't. Toys can prevent this but if not applicable at this stage, anal seems to accommodate for it. But it's a personal choice. All I can advise is it's really fanatatic once you get over the initial awkwardness of it. But if this girl wants to go all hardcore on you right away then it definitely won't make your rear end feel good. =p
