What happened to my husband?

What happened to my husband? I had this awesome man I was dating, had a baby got married, it was both what we wanted then over the past year our relationship went to hell. I miss my guy

 

Maybe you shouldn't have met another man, got married and had a baby with him

 

you ARE a thread destroyer!

 

People change... it sucks sometimes, but it's part of life. Sorry you're having a rough time, but it will pass.

 

Heh, i'm sorry, I couldn't resist

I am actually sorry to hear about it all. Sounds like you both need to go back and really discover what it was you liked about each other before reality kicked in. Marriage, babies and whatever else are a huge leap, and it can be easy to lose that lust you shared through responsibility.

If that makes sense

Hope you will be Ok though!

 

that sucks. I spent 2 1/2 years with a man and wondered how I got into that, and why all of a sudden he didnt want the baby we had, and why he was hurting me like he was. things change. marriages fail,a nd things can be get sad. But the thing is if you still love him, you need to find out what went wrong and try to fix it, If he wont go to counseling, then you might have to get out of it, but If he is willing to try to make it work. That is a start. I am getting married in 2 weeks for the 2nd time in my life, and I spent a lot more time getting ot know this man before marrying him, unlike my first marriage (my first marriage only knew him 3 months then married him). You may have jumped into it all a little too fast, and he may be feeling really lost. Talk to him, figure out what you both want, and get some counseling if you want to save yoru marriage. that is my 2 cents. Good luck I only wish you the best, for you and your baby.

 

cut him loose and start over

 

Have the two of you sat down and talked about the changes that have taken place in your relationship? Do you think that parenting and taking care of your child has become the biggest priority and everything else has kind of fizzled away? Taking care of your child should, ofcourse, be a priority but taking care of eachother and making sure that your relationship is being nurtured is important too.


I am also curious about how long the two of you have been together. I think that sometimes people get so wrapped up in the excitement of being in love and planning for the wedding and preparing for baby that once all of that happens they dont know how to keep the relationship going and may not even have had that much in common to begin with. The tewo of you need to talk through things and even go to counseling as others have suggested. Ending the relationship is an option but I think you should give everything else a try first.

 

No, it was what you and everyone else told him he wanted



Assuming 80,000 years of homosapien evolution, the way it is today one man one woman trying a lifetime monogamous relationship, 2.1 kids, white picket fence over the last couple hundred years, is just a fad, the way its been for only 1% of the time over that last 80,000 years.

It wasnt even like this 500 years ago, or back in Jesus's day the rich guys had a dozen wives, and its still really like that today, so even today its not even like it really is today


The way it really is, the way it always was, you get with the guys to make the babies, you stick with the other girls to raise the babies and so you do truly get effective communication in a relationship


Or put more simply: Marriage is unnatural

 

can you give us more details on the entire situation how has he changed what is different and so on. With more information then maybe we can help some more.

 

it sounds like u guys lost what makes u guys attracted to eachother. probly having kids and responabilitys took away from the time u guys used to have for eachother. and stress hasa u guys arguing. sounds like u guys need to reconnect. try doing molly with eachother