Need advice - please help

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by jamesconway, Nov 25, 2004.

  1. jamesconway

    jamesconway Member

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    I'm male. I've had a few gay experiences - though not sex. Just petting and playing. I was never attracted to the guys, which I know is nonsensical. All I got was a slight thrill. I have actually never looked at a guy and thought that I would like to kiss him. At the very least, not on a conscious level. I love girls.

    However, I do feel extremely sensitive anally and when aroused often feel like I would like to be penetarted. It's something that's always been there and when I am having hetero sex, enjoying it, my ass is also stimulated and it adds to the straight sex.

    I heard once that if a man is penetrated properly by another man, i.e. by his cock rather than just finger etc. that this can have a disempowering effect on their ability to have an erection during straight sex.

    I am aware of how corny and immature it sounds. Just wondering if there is any truth to it?

    Any comments are deeply appreciated - as this is something that has been making me wonder.
     
  2. asnakeinthegrass

    asnakeinthegrass Member

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    I personally have never heard that, but Im not an expert. If you think you may like anal sex, this does not mean you are gay. There are many straight men who like anal stimulation. I suggest you try to get one of your frmale partners to play a little around your ass and if she is receptive, maybe it could lead to her using a vibrator or a strap-on. Alot of women will get int this action and you would be able to explore some of those anal thoughts. Just trying to help
     
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