when you fall in love?? ive been on many relationships but i feel like im ALWAYS in love but how do you know if its the real deal???
When your partner has stuck with you through hard times, and you feel like you will find no one else that loves you like he or she does. When you both can say your are my best friend,my soul mate,my love,my family,my everything. When there is respect,honestly,trust,friendship,caring,love,understanding,freedom,communication,and DIRECTION. Love is to chase the sun together.
Hahaha that's a good sign. Although wanting to beat each other with a bat and yet you would still rather be there wit her than anyone else. That's how I would describe it. Its also funny that the right one is often not who u ever thought it would be. Not what u always thought was your physical type for instance. U just seem to need to be with them and u really don't care what they look like lol. I know that's how it happened with me. My wife is beautiful, but not what I always thought I wanted as a know nothin kid lol
It seems to me that people fall in love and it can be the real deal, but it is also possible to fall out of love. Whatever the real deal means anyway.
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Maybe it's always the real deal - for the moment. So much of love has been quantified in the physical realm - "chemistry" as it has been described. Ppl choose mates on all sorts of physical cues (my fav being odors). I know the feeling of fresh infatuation, that gut driven, irrational longing. Patient expectation of "chance" encounters that you set up. I love being in love. But those feelings have invariably diminished with familiarity. Tho I have stayed with one partner for a couple decades and been close, intimate and in love the whole time. That may be the real love, the staying with someone beyond the infatuation phase. Enduring the day-to-day mundane existence with a partner, which can often test "love."
the honest answer is 'when you dont have to make a thread asking'. you just know, as closely as you know that you are.
When I was with my fiance (now ex) I thought I was in love, but his fucking me over led to me meeting this amazing man who I instantly knew I was in love with. He was everything I wanted and vice versa.. It sounds cliche but it's true when they say you just know. In your head there is no doubt in your mind that this person is anything but what you want to be with forever. You never want to let that person go. Not only do you want them, but you gotta have them. They stir up a feeling in you that no one else has or ever could give you and you couldn't imagine ever being with someone else. You feel safe with that person and you have the urge to be nothing but completely honest and up front with them. You give them what you want to receive, and in turn the person gives it back to you. That's being in love.
when i met my husband for the first time we were really just looking for a close friendship but we fell in love basically the saying is true you just know when you're with the right person you have a certian feeling that you dont want to stop feeling and i cant explain to you what that feeling feels like because everyone is different you usually find true love when you're not really looking dont lose faith and hope true love is around the corner
I have been in love several times and I have THOUGHT I was in love several times. The thing is, the beginning or "honeymoon phase" makes everyone feel like they're sitting on Cloud 9 with Cupid applauding in the background. Now how do you know it's love? When Cloud 9 dissipates and Cupid flies away and the real world sets in and you don't run screaming for the hills. When you get into routines and still realize that the person beside you is the only person you could ever want beside you, when you realize they're not perfect and it's okay, when you both know it's just "right." And just because a relationship may not last, doesn't mean the love wasn't valid or "real," it just wasn't meant to be. Every encounter teaches you something, maybe that person taught you patience or you just weren't ready for something you thought you were ready for. Some people fall in love once and they get it right the first time. Some people fall in love over and over again until they find the one that sticks. How do you know when you've found "the one?" I'm not sure, I'm still waiting for mine. But I know the answer can't be found in a thread. Best of luck on your search, my friend.
Everyone feels that way sometimes but you will truly know the person is for you. Not only do you have the feeling but your heart will tell you that it is the right person you just know when the time is right
