are you my mother?

i need a mom. not some shitty mom that doesn't really want to be a mom. (already been down that road twice) i need a mom that loves me UNCONDITIONALLY!

hell.. i'd settle for a few good girl friends that i could talk to about anything right now.

 

aren't you a grown woman? Shit, I stopped wishing I had a dad when I was 16.

 

no thanks. last time we tried this you spit up on my shoulder.

 

I always think a few good friends are much better than a hundred okay friends.

 

I'll be a mommy to you.

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thanks shaggie.. you seem to love me unconditionally already.

 

awwww i grew up with and still have an amazing mom...
i can't imagine who id be without her
i'd be glad to talk with you though

 

more e-friends are always welcome.

maybe i should have put this in a different section.

 

i feel you. i need one too

 

yesterday was my Moms birthday..I'll share her if you move up here.

 

Well boog if you ever need to get anything out then you can always PM me!

When i first saw the title i thought it was going to be about the Dr. Seuss book.

 

that was a good book.

 

I also originally thought it was about the book

 

yeah.. i like that book.. i kinda feel like that bird sometimes.. but the book never ends.

you know how when you're a kid and you assume all families are just like yours? i was always so confused as to why the momma bird was so happy to see the baby and the baby was happy too.

 

I could adopt you, if you can share well with my monsters. You can have your own room and a weekly allowance.

Feeling alone and not having a close connection to someone to share feelings and have a sounding board that you can trust to have your interests at heart is hard.

If I can help you in any way....

 

yeah...

what i need is some REAL momma's around here. i know some moms.. but they are so "mainstream" they're not in touch with being a mom.. kinda hard to explains. seems their kids are an annoyance to them more than anything. i've met a few, what i call real mommas before, but then i moved. i should have stayed there..

guess i have a lot of regrets of my own.. and a lot of things i wished i had done differently. feel like i missed out on a lot when i was a kid too.

 

Yeah, ditto

I thank my parents for paying the bills etc, making sure I didnt fry myself with the knife in the toaster thing etc

But once High Schools started, I pretty much wanted to break that bond of co-dependance and they both became a pain in the ass

 

i'll be your mother

GET IN THE FUCKING VAN, CHILD

 

3 is a crowd..

 

Are there any places close to you that you could maybe meet more like minded gals that might be better companions?

Maybe even a club or something like that might help. I am not sure how old your kids are, is there something they are into that might make it possible for you to meet someone that way?

When mine were little we moved for 2 years to Cambridge, Ontario and it was really difficult as finding someone to talk to was a little tough. Most were younger than I was and it was tough. I actually met one great woman by hiring her daughter to watch my kids one evening. The sitter was 15 and I was a bit apprehensive, the mom called and said she would come with her. We have kept in touch since that chance meeting.

I remember feeling very isolated when I first moved. Hated that feeling.