My gf and I are newbies to the anal sex world. I asked this as part of another thread, but it may have been lost. Having been reading many a post-it appears that women are able to have an orgasm strickly via anal sex. I have a question for the women who orgasm from anal sex. I totally believe it, and think that is soo hot, but I am having trouble picturing my gf cumming from strictly anal. How does it happen? It there truly no touching of the pussy or clit? Is it a clitoral orgasm or gspot/vaginal type orgasm, or is there something simply called anal orgasm? I assume the orgasm must come somewhere from the pussy, but I may be wrong. Since my gf cannot cum through intercourse alone, I would love to be able to make her cum from fucking her ass. I KNOW she would love it if I were able to do that. I have read up on the subject but maybe asking for some first hand knowledge may really helpful.
Well I am a man and orgasm from anal, but that's a totally different thing (i have a prostate.) Keep in mind the ass is full of pleasure nerves, both male and female, but from what I've learned from women who orgasm, or atleast enjoy anal, is that it totally depends on their partner, situation, state of mind, altered mind (drugs, liquor) and one woman i met years ago told me that she basically trained herself to orgasm from anal sex, due to the fact that she can't have vaginal sex. But as far as a legitimate reason for a woman to orgasm during sex (like men can), i don't think their is one. Just like some people can orgasm from nipple play, cutting, being tied up etc etc. We're all built different.
Thanks h23456bca Any ladies care to comment? PS I have prostate orgasm/milking questions too-but that will wait for another day another time
Yeah, we need ladies to comment, preferably single ones so we can send private messages and make an effort for the real thing.
Being new here-I can't tell if that was a dig at me or not. Either way-no PM's, I am looking forward to honest mature answers. This forum seemed like the place?
This forum is the place. Most people are cool, but they're are always douchebags, everywhere you go. Just give it time. A woman with a real opinion will post.
It's just that there's a suprising number of douchebags who make like 3 retarded topics trying to get people to cyber and then leave. People might not notice you're a real person and not someone's 12 year old russian girl persona.
I am a woman and I prefer anal sex to vaginal sex. It's going to be different with every women.. some women can't enjoy anal sex at all and theres some like me that love it more than anything. But usually when we have anal sex I have very strong orgasms from it. What gets me worked up first is having him lick my ass for awhile. It feels really really good and makes me really hot for actual penetration. When he fucks me I usually play with myself with a finger on my clit or inside of my vagina (sometimes I use a dildo) and I usually have an orgasm. I have had orgasms only from taking it in the ass but it does take longer that way. I prefer deep penetration and a steady rythm to fast rythm. Slow doesn't do much for me without my stimulating myself in someway. I also like it when my boyfriend cums in my ass ( we don't use condoms). I should add that I've been having anal sex for a long time and quite often so I know what I like.. it will take time. We usually do it doggy style leaning up against the bed or something similar. It's easier for him to get deep in my ass and allows me to play with myself easily without having to support myself up. I am not an expert but it's very sensitive for me and I know it shares a wall with the vagina so I imagine it's possible for that to help get us off from it. I don't know if that will help but I'd reccomend she play with herself while you have anal sex with her, the feeling is amazing.
While I am a guy, my gf has orgasms from anal and I have asked her this question in the past. She doesn't think she can orgasm from anal alone because it is too intense. However when we do anal in missionary position, her clit and vagina get hit from my thrusting on top of her and that is enough to put her over the edge.
I dont orgasm from anal alone. I actually think i probably could, but theres no way I can hold out. I always end up grabbing a dildo or just fingering myself after a few minutes of anal. Its too intense to hold out.
my wife is very much able to come from assfucking alone. and the orgasm is much stronger than the vaginal one; she has said that many times.
I get super strong, multiple, full body, orgasms from anal alone. Way better than vaginal sex. I would not be doing it if that were not the case
seriously, nothing else required ... I suspect it is rubbing the g spot from the other side, but they are somehow even better than a g spot orgasm - well they are for me anyway.
K could just be me, but i've been having anal sex since i was 17 and with out clit play, i've never even come close..
My wife has regular orgasms from anal only. Although that was not always the case. She never was able to have one from only anal until I played with her ass using a toy and stimulating her front vaginal wall through her ass. After that she could cum from anal only. Mabey it's a learned responce? Once you've done it it happens easier after? It sure seems that way with her.
