pull out method worries

we switched to pull out method and everything went fine but i'm still worried a bit.

he always pulled it out before cumming but we did it four or five times in a row. he wiped it clean and all but some cum might have remained there, i don't know..no preliminary stuff either, but i'm also a bit worried about that..

we had sex the day after my period was over. usually it's more or less on time, not like an almanac but more or less around the same time each month, january 8th, february 10th, march 15th (so the ovulation day should fall on march 28th).if ovulation day is later, that's okay but if it's earlier, then that sucks. can it happen a week earlier or something? my next period should be from april 11th..i can't do anything but wait until then.

what are the chances that i'm pregnant?
needless worries?

 

emmm you're usin a risky method there.. i think you should get some condoms or go on the pille
my doctor told me usin the pull-out method is like playin russian roullette .. its risky!!!
before he actually cums, there's still pre-cum that comes out that he wont even feel comin out...

sorry if i worried you!! but just lettin ya know its not very safe!!!

 

yeah i know it's risky we've been using condoms before but thought we could try it like this..careless,i know.
and he doesn't want me to take the pill so i guess i'll have to choose some other birth control device or something.
no more pull out method for sure.

 

pfft, its your body. if you want to take the pill you should take the pill. it feels a lot better than condoms.

 

why doesnt he want you to take the pill???

 

Did your boyfriend pee after he came all those times?
If he didn't then you could be pregnant, since there might of been some cum in his urethra after cumming and not peeing then having sex again.
Buy some condoms jeeze...and you won't have to worry.

 

yeah, that method can give you some big surprises! My mom got a baby out of it! Be careful!!!!
peace
Delfynasa

 

don't worry about it. you're still quite young; you really shouldn't even be trying to get pregnant yet. but if you keep working at it, you'll have babies in no time.

 

Dont want kids? Dont take the chance.

Wouldnt go near a woman with my dick unless shes on birth control or theres a rubber handy. Too risky to be fucking around with that to be honest.

 

Seriously, the pill, a condom, the injection or the IUD- all these things are available for a reason. I want to give you a predetermined congratulations.

What the hell is wrong with people? Your boyfriend sounds like a dipstick, either that or he wants you up the duff.

 

It's your body, your responsibility. He can not tell you what to do, and quite frankly, I'm worried that he would even try (as well as that you would let him).

 

get on some birth control, the pull out method is very weak in preventing pregnancy. Do you want to get pregnant? bc if not you need to be on something more efficient. Like the pill, or whatnot, and he should not tell you what you can nad can not do with your body, sounds very controlling and something is wrong there.

 

The pull out method is not effective at all. You still have a very high chance of getting pregnant. I used to work with teen parents and can you guess what the number one method of birth control was?? the pull out method. Finding a birth control that works and doesnt have side affects can be kind of tiring 9I have been on like 6 different types of pills in the past 10 years...) but you have to try different things to see what works. I love the pill I am on now, no side effects like headaches which I used to get a lot of. If accidentally getting pregnant wont be the end of the world for you then the pull out method is ok. But if you would have a really difficult time with an uinplanned pregnancy then I would suggest getting on something. There are websites that allow you to take quizzes in ordert to help you determine which methods may be better for you.

 

pull out method = you WILL get pregnant. you can and will get pregnant from pre-cum.

get on the pill or something. thats just mind-boggling as to why he wouldn't want you to be. is he a control freak? do you want to get pregnant by some asshole thats going to try and tell you what you can and can't do with your body? the mom part of me is outraged by this. the woman part of me is outraged by this! get on some birth control.. if he wants to use the pull out method because he doesn't like condoms.. find some babies to hang out with and see how much he doesn't like them screaming and crying all the time and ask him which he hates more..

sorry.. this just bugs the hell outta me. i'm on your side.. get on the pill.. or something! and if he don't like it.. he can go fuck himself.. at least that way you won't get pregnant.

 

Your guy is a douche bag! Who is gunna get left holding the kid when you eventually get pregnant - as you will if you keep using such a flawed method? Pre cum (which he wont even notice coming out) contains sperm and the swimmers will be set free way before he reaches full ejaculation.

Bottom line it is your body, your choice, simple as that! You have a responsibility to yourself to make decisions and take precautions that are right for YOU, and it is NOT open to negotiation with ill informed immature idiots who are happy to be disrespecting you by putting you at this unwanted risk.

IMO get on the pill, patch, shot, something, and get rid of the guy.

 

It is not fool proof. The normal menstruation period is 28 days, day 1 being the first day of your period. Day 14 is "typically" the ovulation day. Abstinence 3 days prior and 4 days after, and still pulling out is pretty safe, but still risky.

 

My wife and I have used the pull out method for 15 years w/o an unwanted pregnancy. This only works because I have the ability to control it. A lot of men don't which is why it is so unreliable.

 

there is a name for people who use this method of birth control. parents.

 

yeah that would be the truth