A question...

Seconded.

 

ok, we're not looking for a pro...just a regular minded woman/female/girl, who is ok with it, and as far as security goes, there is none, which is have of the fun in the unknown, but all i guess i was really asking, is, how should i or my wife approach someone for this, and second, do you guys think that it should rather be me or my wife...

 

You say craigslist is creepy? Let me tell you, I have used it to hook up with sexy strangers in my area, and I love it! In the Erotic services section, you'll find many women available for fun in exchange for a donation. In the casual encounters section you might be able to find a friend for free, but honestly most of the women you'll find will want some compensation. If that's what creeps you out about it, consider this. Most of these women are perfectly sweet, sane, healthy, women, who probably don't like the regular 9-5, and have found a way to make ends meet by sharing loving interactions with others. I mean, come on, we as hippies should be able to understand the benefits of such an arrangement. Have your wife post a specific ad. Include descriptions of you, what you are looking for, and any special considerations that you may have. Also read through the ads and respond to any that catch your eye. I think that hiring someone might be your best bet, because you know there will be no strings attached, and you'll know that it's a sure thing. Good Luck, and let us know how it goes.

 

i think they are looking for a one night stand, and arent wanting to FOR LACK OF BETTER WORDS "buy a hooker"... don't mean to offend, but if your looking for "Donations" isnt that kind of the same thing!

It is kinda like you go to a club and hook up with someone for the night and never really speak again, no strings attached........... from what I have read, it sounds like that is what they want to do......................

All he wants to know is how would they aproach the girl??? Does the wife go up and start talking to her, or should the husband approach her. They want to hear a girls point of view.............

How would you girls here feel about being approaced by someone, would you be more comfortable with the man or woman??

I think the best approach is to try and start up a normal conversation to see if you share someone similar thought on things, you can get a better feel for the person and have a better idea if you should find someone else or if the girl you are talking to is interested.
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ok, me and my wife are going to try this weekend, I really really wish that someone could offer some last minute advise

 

Are you an advertisement? If not, have you considered a career in advertising? lol I love your writing style.

 

so, we attempted craig's list (this weekend was a bust...gay bar had gay biker weekend, and since it's a GI town, seems like all the military wifes went outta town)...but craig's list was no issue solver neither...

 

go to a strip club on couple night lots of options there also usually her taking the enitiative will work. Dancing .. telling another girl she is pretty and she would have SO much fun if she could touch her. Come on join us lol it worked for me and my ex!

 

alright I will let you in on something, I am SmallPencils wife, so far no luck, we had a girl tell us we were hot and, danced with me, then when it came down to asking her about it she left the club in a hurry, and didnt come back the next weekend, even tho she was all over me all night. We also went to a strip club and I donated a few bucks to this girl, she was all over me, but it was a strip club so I wouldnt think much of it, and She said she wasnt doing anything after work but never said yes so I figure it may have been a nice way of saying no so I would still tip her. I dunno, I hear all these people talking about "man i had a threesome" and I think maybe it is not so easily acheived, maybe its something that "just happens"​

 

I had two threesomes in highschool both FFM and I really don't know how to give you safe advice because what I did wasn't really safe. I wore protection, but I dunno I think you need to change protection when your having sex with two girls and I didn't so that could have been bad for the girls and under one circumstance we were extrememly intoxicated.

But heres kinda how it went about for both situations:
at a party (one over summer, one before prom) and we start getting wasted drinking a lot.. various things: tequilla, beer, pot, etc.

I ended up flirting a lot with two girls while we all hung out together. Made a joke about how it would be funny to have a threesome, hung out more, drank more. We end up in a cab.. I'm in the back I start hooking up with one of the girls and the other one sticks her hands up my pants. We end up going to one of the girls houses and one thing lead to another.. the two girls never hooked up though. The other time at prom we were in a limo and I had drugs on me and I told my two friends who were guys they should bring their cars so we have a ride after the limo is over (we couldnt really afford it for the night) they end up driving.. I end up in the limo with 2 girls and the party begins. I remember specifically though that in this case we didnt get intoxicated at all until after we all hooked up. It was kinda like we just didnt wanna leave anyone out and the we were surrounded by mirrors so we ended up having a threesome and not going to prom. Also the two girls I with "before" or "during" prom were both bi so that makes easier than the girls at the party. Its funny though I ended up dating one of the girls from that party and never spoke or saw the other one again (the one who stuck her hand up my pants).. very strange.

 

okay when you go to a strip club.. go on COUPLES night! lol.. couples night have swingers couples there! me and my ex got approached and i approached. I am very fwd though.. (im a sales lady..lol). I have no problem saying.. you are so sexy.. i want to tastes you..lol..

 

i havent heard of any of them having a couples night here........ i used to do sales too and i always felt bad when i was "in the customer face" i guess i need to work on that

 

well im never "selling" them. I just talk and joke and have fun and throw in funnies but im really serious when i say things i just dont SOUND serious. So i guess that leave me open to be approached. Make sense? Anyway.. ur cute .. too bad you arent here in idaho

 

search for swinger clubs in your area. use the internet. actually it would be safer if your wife has a sister or a niece of legal age or her mother. maybe the next door neighbor. i had a guy who used me to give his wife a threesome, but we got so hot that she wasn't the only object of our lust. i would avoid a two man and one woman threesome. maybe you and your brother could work your wife over.

 

pixellove74. you're a hot looking chick. in about five years you will be prime stuff. if you are married your husband is and will be a lucky man. good luck.

 

Her post is from 2006, WTH....

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So???????????????????? Maybe she can still read, not having her brains f**ked out by now. I know you picture is not you. If you look like the avatar you too are nearing prime stuff. Women are at their best around 40.