Need help with virgin girlfriend

Me and my girlfriend are both in high school.
We have been dating for a while and have tried to have sex once today,

it did not work because I was simply too big for her or she was too tight for me.

Can anyone give me advice to make this work?

 

Foreplay, I suppose.

Or anal

 

wrong hole

 

damn, the title had gotten my hopes up...

 

Get a toy or finger her for awhile to loosen her up before you try to enter her. Just don't let her cum too much like that cause if so, she might actually get tighter.

 

try some lube

 

Haha finger is the answer. Look around the internet and you'll see there's no such thing as too big lol.

It will go, don't worry. That's actually really hot. Mine was a virgin too when we first did it and she's just naturally not as tight. Or I'm just too small haha. Either way, you're lucky in my mind to get to experience what u r now

 

Sorry bout yer luck

 

Not many helpful responses here...

I've been in this situation a few times and I know how difficult it can be for the guy - you don't necessarily need lube or toys in fact I'd forget those ideas completely.

You should instead focus your energy on making sure she feels comfortable and relaxed. If you really do this you'll solve your problem and hopefully have a great time.

I'd go to great lengths making sure the room you're in is nicely set up - clean it, candles, close curtains, maybe some wine, make sure you can't be disturbed, nice music, and then you should let her take her time, make sure she's not tense, lots of foreplay, lots more foreplay etc etc etc...

Perhaps most importantly, you have to be aware that you, being sensitive, are perhaps TOO afraid of hurting her. Even if you've done all the above, the first time you eneter her you are probably going to push with slightly more force than you've imagined.

I'm not saying you should force, just know that it's just that initial penetration that can be a little tricky but once you're in...!!!! Again, I'm not advocating force, just saying you need to be the dude here...

 

Just stick it in

 

From this

too this, very funny


Seriously, screw candles, wine and nice lighting- just bonk each other. You will learn that throughout your sexual existence, you will come up against things that can hurt, may seem uncomfortable, things that could potentially put you in hospital

but it's all part of the game. If something like this holds a person back they may as well just be celibate.

 

Ahahaha just stick it in. Just had to let u know how funny I found that, as if anyone cares ha

 

'Just bonk her'? You think he didn't think of this brilliant advice already?

The problem is probably that his girlfriend feels tense and uncomfortable - my advice was given with a view to putting her comfort first... Just what any mature man with experience would do...

 

I think, had the pair both been a couple of geriatrics then your advice would have been perfectly apt

He never said she was tense or uncomfortable, just that she was a virgin. He was probably being a little to careful, as SB said, although crude, just stick it in!

Try to remember the first time you had sex. From my experience, the majority of my first times were in a bush or something, and I didn't have a bloody clue

I was not a mature man with experience, this kid is probably not either. I can see where you were going with your suggestion, but down to age and what the root of the problem might be, I respectfully disagree- as most people here seem to.


(although a clean house and sheets are a nice idea)

 

Hm, they're young and she's a virgin so it's a fair bet she might have been feeling tense and uncomfortable.

Still, I'm sure he'll overlook my advice in favour of your experiences in bushes.

By the way, what is that God awful picture in all your posts? Shouldn't be allowed- it's well annoying.

 

my theory: OP made up this story to make his dick sound bigger, and komland is a virgin.

 

Interesting theory coming from a 'tard with 20,000 posts on an internet forum...

 

very interesting from someone who /fails at life so hard that he can't even do what is natural and instinctual to our species...

 

I didn't post the question actually, you mong.

 

actually, if you read very closely you'll find that i didn't say you did.