Do my actions deserve this kind of feedback...

hahahaha
i learned to keep myself in check...but giving head was a given

 

Hahah well I don't see anything wrong with just making him feel good, I mean, as long as you're not giving the rest of yourself away hahah.

 

exactly..i absolutely love giving head to both guys and girls
hahah

 

Haha I can't say I've given it to a girl before. but I'm done discussing my sexual experiences on here for now, so I'm not even gonna say what I haave done lol.

 

haha
no one was asking

 

Wooo auri I'm on mescaline and I was coming down but your sig pic just sent a wave of euphoria up my body.

 

hahahhaa
glad i could help

 

you are in no way a slut or a disappointment... don't worry about disappointing others, that's for them to deal with, not you... you just do what feels right for you... if you want to say yes, say yes, enjoy it and use adequate protection for yourself, and you have every right to say no too.... these people you speak of sound like right dicks... steer well clear from people like that sweetie, you deserve better treatment than that!!! you need to believe that you deserve better treatment than that so i would suggest doing some work on your self-esteem... you are a beautiful person and you always have been... please remember that! :grouphug:

 

What lillallyloukins said; great advice and counsel. Go with it!

 

I see where YourRuca is coming from. I sometimes feel like I'm disappointing the guy if we don't have sex. But, we have to remind ourselves that we have things to offer other than sex that are worth so much. Don't ever ever have sex if you don't want to. I've done that too and all it does is lower your self-worth even more.

 

Some guys also get disappointed if their fart doesn't light on fire...
So don't have sex to appease some dude.

 

When I was your age, I'd certainly be interested in you.

I can't really see why you would choose to hang out with these guys that act abusive towards you over having no guys at all, really.

 

i spent the last year of high school getting called a slut every day. people are assholes. as long as you know who you are, respect yourself, and are happy with yourself as a person, dont let them get you down. keep your head held high.

 

You are easy! What conssitutes being a slut. If not you then what? Why did you waituntil the giy was fucking ypou before you slapped him. If you didn't want him to do it you should not have put yourself into a posituin where it could happen. You make excuses for yourself at every turn. You let this happen. These guys know from your past actions that if they can get you alone they can nail you and that's what they do and that's what you allow to happen. You are an easy piece of ass, that is all they think of you. How does it feel to be known that way.
If not against sex but face the facts. You've done this to yourself. You're know for being a easy piece of ass and anyone can have some, if you play your cards right.

 

15 isn't all that young for sex really, lol - but no you aren't a slut - people only label you as that if they aren't getting much. lol.

 

This post pisses me off.

Next you'll tell me that a woman deserves to get raped because she is wearing a short skirt. Or because she doesn't wear underwear.

Even if the OP is a slut (I make no judgements) she is the one in control of who (or what) she fucks, when she fucks and what circumstances she fucks.

Nobody deserves to be raped.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

no kid.you are not.an keep in mind the word slut anyway is just a dumb word used by badminded ,nasty kinda people.its only mouths like that it comes from.firstly you sound like a great kid and i admire your honesty.the pedro guy should be in prison an the rest are no better.its not a sex problem with you.its a lack of self confidence in yourself,for whatever reasons you dont think more highly of yourself.an being constantly verbelly abused by cowardly bullying , abusive assholes!, saying negative things to you and about you is'nt helping you any.i think you need to get as far away from all those people as you possible can.cos their the ones with the problem.not you!and i think you are just needing some real love and affection,but mixing that up with sex.real friends will care about you for who you are.and wont have a condition of sex on it.those people are not! your friends and do not care about you at all.they are just using you and taking advantage of you bigtime!also if you are not having safe sex,you could also be in danger of picking up an s.t.d.so be careful that way to.you are the captain of your own ship kid.your body is your own.let no one abuse it,or use it.an the blackouts leave you a lot more vunerable ta be abused also.take all the help you can get to make things better and take your power back.because you already are a better person than those abusing you.you just need ta let them know that.by losing them!you will make better friends, an when you do it will be friends worth having.but first you need to become a better friend ta yourself.by doing nothing you dont feel ok with!you are a beautiful person.you just need ta believe it. hugs :grouphug: :mickey:

 

Self respect and self worth! You need to find some.

 

and as for you,ta even suggest to a 17yr old girl that she as much as asked ta be raped!what consstitutes being a mega asshole ?an attitude like yours.!

 

Too bad she hasn't been on in a year and a half.

Stay Brown,
Rev J