oh my gawd!! I was reminded once again that a touch can be so much .... anyone else out there put holding and caressing on top above it all? does the simple warmth of your lover laying close bring all the troubles to an end? are you able to appreciate the best spooning?
beign held, caressed, soft kisses, and beign touched is by far the best. the only problem i have is i am with a man that doesnt reciprocate nothing. so right now everything sucks ass in my eyes. but i do beleive touch and all is far better than sex. especially when your lover know just where to touch you and wht kind of touch to use. just writing this makes me miss being held and shown affection.
I agree 100% when you love someone a simple carress or kiss on the cheek means so much. I didn't really love my ex and when we "did things" I mean yeah it felt good but I didn't feel that strong passion and I didn't have that amazing feeling I know you have when you are in love.
god...i put love above most things, u have no idea. i cant explain the wonderful feelings i get from little caresses of the thumb on my hand or light kiss on my head...even no touching, just "the look" is amazing...
Love is always better then anything, but love can hurt you emotionally which can take years to heal, any pain that comes fro sex normally goes away much quicker.
it seems like this thread has been done a million times. but i do agree. i think the best love someone can give isnt physical.
So true. My husband and I cuddle or spoon just about every night, especially in the morning hours before he goes to work. It's one of my favorite things to do. He loves it too. In fact, he'll complain if we didn't. Hugs...
Nothing beats being with and holding someone with pure love and passion. I'd take that any day over sex, sex just is so blah without love. Wish there was someone in my life that would hold me and love me
lol me myself i like to make love more than i like to um.... "fuck" or what have you. I like the more sentual, loving, caring touch of my gf then the cuddling at the end of it all just makes being with her so much more worth everything that i'm going through to get her
I feel the exact same way. When I was with my ex even just the littlest thing between us was SO special. Ive messed around with guys who I dont have those feelings for, and although the physical may be pleasurable...its just not the same. Love is so powerful.
