quick question! i just wanna know "how kan you tell if a woman is faking an orgasm" see me and my gf have been dating for a kouple of months now i love it but im not sure if shes really into sex so much kuz she rearly wants to do it and when we do i feel like if shes fakin it!!! should i ask her??
im not sure im doing it right! i only had 2 sex partners and i wasnt much into sex before! she on the other hand had more experience than me!
The ability to please a woman comes with practice and maturity. One of these days you will push the right button and then you will have to hang on for dear life and at that moment you will no for sure she is not faking. Good luck.
This makes me suspicious about whether you've ever given a girl one.. Honestly, I don't see how any guy that has couldn't tell if they were faking..
First of all, I don't worry about. Second, I am just glad when a woman wants to have sex with me, so I do the best I can.
Then all is well, for sure. =) I've only given my girl one 'minigasm' (as the love and sex board told me it was =P) it was from nipple play, and the way her whole body contracted and released and she clung to me so tightly afterwards was amazing -- and I know she has great potential in her body for an unbelievable orgasm, but she's never been comfortable letting go, and always stops me when she nears it. I plan to show her some websites or videos for girls who are nervous about orgasming, when it does become pressing enough of an issue -- but she's happy, and I'm happy -- so it really doesn't matter. It's almost like orgasms have been elevated to an issue of equality -- like, yeah right -- there's no equality in the sexes' natural ease of reaching that point, how can there be equality in the frequency of orgasm of each sex? Just ain't happening.
Is she with you because you're rich or powerful or give her good drugs or were dating her sister or xbff or something like that? No? Then it's real.
"Honestly, I don't see how any guy that has couldn't tell if they were faking" If you are licking her clit and your fingers are in her pussy, you obviously can tell by the spasms/contractions.
This should be more of a concern than you actually being concerned if she orgasms. You should ask her what she like and work on perfecting that. The actual ability to make a woman orgasm is much more complicated. Ive fucked a girls brains out and she didnt orgasm while I finger banged the same girl another time and she came. Mood and foreplay seems to play a role. Even for me as a guy I'm not automatic in orgasming. To answer your question more straightforward women seem to grab me quite hard like on the arm or head and squeeze if they are climaxing
"women seem to grab me quite hard like on the arm or head and squeeze if they are climaxing" Dude, when women cum, the muscles in their vagina contract. If your dick or fingers are in there you can feel it. If the girl is in shape and has a tight pussy its very cool to have your dick or fingers in there when she cums. If its a fat old chick with a big sloppy pussy, not so much.
