when my girlfriend gets off when we are having sex she gets really dry and her vagina starts hurting, so we put lube on it and try to keep going but ends up burning her vagina so bad that we have to quit... every lube that we have used burns her vagina water based and oil.. plz help us has anyone hade the same problam and fixed it or know of a lube that could fix this prob
Have you tried just stopping for a couple minutes after she comes? Let her relax, stay inside her but dont move. Start warming her up again, make her wet again the same way you usually do. It can take awhile, but obviously its worth it. No need to rush sex anyway, and the longer you delay your own gratification, the greater it will be.
thats a new one .. ive never heard of a woman getting drier after an orgasm, maybe a womans opinion is needed ? .. you sure shes not faking ?
Some women are just naturally dry. I have a friend who had to go to the gyno and get sum special lube prescribed to her. I personally can't help you cuz I get super wet...I was blessed
I get dry after an orgasm, I think its just a way to take a break in between. I couldn't go for multiples it hurts if the guy keeps going no matter if I'm wet or not.
Humm, interesting... I have a waterfall down there almost every time. Physical or psycho-emotional causes. Physical : agressive hygiene, safe pills, too much sex (there are many others but not you're case) Psycho-emotional : inhibition due to fear of a painful penetration, hurried and insufficient foreplay, lack of sexual desire, fear of sexuality, lack of confidence, feelings of conflict within the couple, sometimes using internal buffers that are being changed very often. Notice how long should be the prelude in order for the vagina to be ready to receive the penis - not "jump" directly to penetration. Stimulate your partner's erogenous zones. Penetration should be done only on a background of relaxing and exciting, without haste. Use position "woman on top" which lets you control how much you're constantly penetrate and control the rhythm of sex. In other words, you control when, and how. Sorry for errors, but I'm not a native English speaker.
