Weed is holding me back

Okay, I am 15 and have been smoking weed for about a year and a half. When i first smoked weed, I fell in love with it and ever since i have been smoking a lot. Before I started smoking I had a lot of friends and was a pretty cool guy. Ever since I started smoking weed I started hanging out with friends less and less and stayed home smoking by myself. I had been going every day at least 3 times a day. I would wake up and smoke before school, come home and smoke and smoke before bed. Weed was literally my best friend, I spent a lot of time with it. It didn't interfere with my grades, but it made a antisocial and boring. I have a couple close friends but nothing like I used to. I never used to be so anxious and self consious but now I am even when im not high. I have trouble talking to people Im not used to and always think they are making fun of me in their head. I think that weed is holding me back socially, so I think I am going to stop.

 

It's just a phase..I slept a lot in high school, and all that, but thats just because I had the teenage angst

 

yeah this happened to me to an extent i stopped for a little bit but nothing changed so i kept smoking and it pretty much went away, now i'm just shy like i normally am.

 

angst?

 

then stop bro.
as a stoner, i think it's a good idea.
good job for noticing and doing something about it.
weed's not for everyone

 

You're a freshmen bro, more than likely you're still surrounded by a bunch of little kids that claim that "above the influence" bullshit, I'd just slow down and find myself a woman if I were you.

 

Let herb revolve around your life, don't let your life revolve around herb.

Herb should enhance your life, it shouldn't BE your life.


-RastaJah

 

^ a woman will complicate things. i am one, and i know. do not find any women. fuck them and dump them, if you need to get off.

that is all

 

Fuck people who say don't stop. Seriously if you're doing drugs, and you feel like for the betterment of your life you should stop drugs, you should probably stop doing drugs for a while.

 

yeah if its messing with your head i would stop

 

this post answers it'sown question if there even was one to begin with

 

Try stopping, see how it works out. Some people aren't good with certain drugs. Weed may be a bad one for you.

Or you know, he could find a good and uncomplicated woman.

I gots me one of them. Three years and not a fight. And we just had the best sex yet today =D
Oh yeah, and she's nice and loving and made my whole world get happy and colorful and jazzy

But uh yeah, I'm not actually suggesting that for OP, he's too young for that shit =P Just sayin.

 

definately stop at least for a while. I don't think anyone should become a regular stoner before they graduate high school, and it has been proven that smoking weed while going through puberty stunts your mental and physical growth, if you're only 15 it just isn't woth it

 

Take a brake for a month, see how it goes. If anything cut back. Three times a day is way too much. Try going to class sober.

 

There are some people who react differently to weed, and some links have been made for some people to be predisposed to the bad effects of weed. Research is being done currently on a link between doing weed as a young adult and the onset of schizophrenia.

I think you should stop too. If you want to stop, it's probably because you need to.

Maybe you could join a cool club at school to meet people. Or join a cool club outside of school to meet people. Good luck!

 

It's the age-old story - too much of anything is a bad thing.

As you testified, you 'fell in love' with it. So you wanted it all the time.

I've seen it with grass, booze, food, sex. Those who do too much incur consequences. This is especially true of drugs when you're so young.

Moderation is the key to enjoying everything. Weed is a wonderful experience in moderation but an enervating habit when used excessively or too often.

 

I love smoking alone too.
I got to know some kids and smoked with them. While we were hanging out, I hardly said a word.
I smoked a lot with my tolerance being low so it kind of sketched me out.
I don't even want to smoke with them anymore because I'm too awkward and then also sometimes get panicked.
I just want to get the sack and run home.
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I know the boat you're in. No advice yet.

 

I perfer to smoke by myself, I can act as stupid and dumb and not worry I am annoying someone, that's how I look at things, I mean once in a blue I like to smoke with someone but I will always like smoking by myself better, maybe take a couple months off and see how you do

 

Don't blame your problems on a substance that doesn't make decisions for you.

 

most people smoke wayyyy more then needed. its not good enough to get buzzedhigh, people need to be completely blitzed all the time. Continually overload your nervous system and you'll end up just like u described. anxious, paranoid, antisocial.

if i could make a suggestion. take the time now and teach yourself proper smoking habits. take a break for atleast a month. allow your system to heal itself. try to work out youre anxiety. after the month is over resume smoking if u want to. just use moderation. 3times a day 7days a week is to0 much for a 15year old.