I dunno about other girls, but I can usually tell. Maybe it's me, maybe he's just easy to read. There have only been a few times i was surprised by this. And even then, it wasn't any worse than when I know when it's coming.
I think for alot of women it's like a jack in the box. They kind of have an idea when it's about to shoot out but there is that split second where it like retracts and then it comes out suddenly and can be startling.
yeah for me its not a big deal... its kind of part of the package when you go down there, you know its goin to happen :rofl: but yeah i can always telll with my boyfriend...
Yes, ask her if she is ready or something. Knowing it is on the way might make it better for her, keep you out of trouble and make it more likely to happen again. It is good for you, you need to make it good for her.
I can't even always tell, you two gals are sages. Sometimes it just feels good, feels good, feels good, and then it happens. Try me, I want to know if you can tell when I can't =D
I just want to know what you must have told her before the wicked deed... what the hell did she think was going to happen!? 'Uhh, yeah hun, you put your mouth on that and then... well... an angel grows it's wings...!?' ....... ....... ....... YOU LYING BASTARD! ... you say something?
I just wish that Emily Post would have written a chapter on Blow Job ettiquette. Subjects covered "Warning Before Ejaculation", "Spit or Swallow", "Gagging", "Scraping Teeth: If So How Much", "Asking Permission Before Snowballing","How Long after Ejactulation Should I Wait To Kiss The Guy?" etc. It would make posts like this obsolete. Peace Out, Rev J
after 5 yrs of my dick in her mouth, if she dont know by now, when Im gonna bust a Nut.. then oh well..
I'm just going to repeat what everyone else has been saying: tell her if she wants to know. But I'm with the other girls: I can always tell when it's coming.
I don't know if it's what you're supposed to do, but it would be a polite thing to do. If you do it again, after she made it clear she didn't like it, then I would say you should know better.
I can usually tell when my boyfriend is about to "cum" but he tells me just so I won't be surprised. I find it quite polite, and I'm not as surprised when he cums, so I handle it better. Many girls have problems with their partners cumming in their mouths for some reason, so maybe that's it. I personally don't mind at all, and I even kind of enjoy it, but to each their own.
I usually have a fairly large amount of cum and it squirts out with quite a bit of force. It generally tends to be on the watery side versus the thick creamy stuff. I have had a number of women literally choke on it because it squirts so far back in their throat. So I pretty much feel like I have to give some warning to girls, especially the first time, that they are about to get a present in their mouth.
i dunno, i can tell when my b/f is about to cum, the head of his dick will swell up bigger than it was before, so i already know he's about to give it to me.. Love sidney
Any ladies ever had a surprise release go wrong? (In the mouth out the nose?) Remember to let her know and don't push down on the back of her head when you let er goooo!
I often let her know, but it has never been an issue when I have not. I have blown a few guys and each time they were about to cum I knew it, I do no see that it would be much of a surprise for most women.
We go to a lot of sex parties, i asked my wife if guys let her know they are about ot blow. She said that they did not, but that she always knows... she love guys cumming in her mouth