Last week I was drunk at the bar, ended up having sex with a girl i didnt find even remotely attractive. she said she was on the pill so we did it without a condom and for some reason now I'm paranoid because some was like "yeah, girls lie about being on the pill." and my first thought was "omg i never thought about that." I'm 23, I've had unprotected sex with 4 people and I was never scared before until this last one. I'm going to get checked out but that doesn't bother me. They got pills for that stuff. Its the pregnancy idea. This chick was 31 and from out of town. I told her then it was a one time thing. So like I doubt I have anything to worry about right? Btw I never came I stopped after a bit. I mean really, how many of you guys have done this at least once? On a side note. I fucked a serious girlfriend for about 6 months daily without protection just using pull out and she wasn't on anything and nothing ever happened. (dumb I know, but we were in love and living together, long story...anyways.) So why am I so paranoid about one time with some random that said she was on protection? Two things I now know. Won't fuck without a condom. Won't fuck people I'm not attracted to again. Help me feel better guys, I'm over reacting and making this a bigger deal than it really is ya? All in my head?
i have been in this lottery many many times and havnt been blessed with any unplanned kids or std's... live and learn and good luck
Don't trust Jesus, cover your penis! Nah, I dunno, it's a pretty stupid situation. All you can do is hope to hell you haven't got her pregnant- although if you 'pulled out' then you should be fine. Either way, this should just be a lesson learned.
hahaah that makes me feel a better man thanks. *sigh of relief* I know this is not an uncommon thing and it will be ok. Dear Universe, I know it's just in my head, I've learned my lesson. I'll be a good boy from now on. Sincerely yours, Scared Straight
nope. still haven't figured out how to get random drunk strangers to come home with me for sex. if i had, i'd probably have kids all over the state by now.
I am sorry that boys have to worry about this sort of thing. I guess the best way to have sex is to know and trust the person your doing it with. Or find someone who is infertile. haha. But I dunno. I guess it's a bit shallow to choose a woman simply because she cannot reproduce. "You just like me for my fucked up reproductive system!" haha.