my "friend" totally just yelled at me

Take a bubble bath to relax and calm down.

 

Well, its pretty shit coffee there, so I'm told, think you should cut him a break.

I swear in Starbucks when I pay 6 bucks for a coffee that tastes like dishwasher

 

i didn't realize dunkin donuts sold tim horton's coffee.

i thought crying was mostly just one emotion...

 

I have never even hear of Tim Horton's. It reminds me of Dr. Seuss. But I am totally going to have to agree, I havent found anything better than this old standby. I love MaryLou's coffee but everything else is yucky and every girl that works there is completely stuck up and can never get my order right.

 

its not shit coffee...its ''ok'' coffee that turns into ''savior coffee'' at 3 in the morning on the stretch after wawa towards winnipeg...

yelling is not acceptable in newish friendships..

you can get away with it on a lifer

 

And sometimes that's what they're for...

 

That's exactly what I was thinking. haha

Had he actually had his coffee yet? Because caffeine deprivation makes people get pretty testy. If that's the case, maybe he deserves a second chance?

 

I've just stumbled in here and people are talking about Coffee.

I've been to Tim Horton's, he's an ex-hockey player who opened up coffee shops in Canada

It is much better than that crap from Starbucks. I want coffee, not dirty water.

 

AND, to the OP

Forgive and forget. If letting this person go would in any way sadden you, then swallow your pride for your own sake and try and work it out. Having good friends is invaluable in life.

 

I think that men shouldn't yell at women. I feel that I should be treated with respect and yelling isnt respectful. I've been yelled at plenty, even kicked a few asses in my time, I'm not a wimp... but getting random freaked out on by a really cool friend is kind of scary and demoralizing.

I'm past the point of my life when puttingup with bullshit should be an option. he did apologize, right now I'm cooling my heels... I'm worried that if I forgive him I'm givinghim permission to do this again in the future.

He yelled at me cause his life really sucks and I think he just wanted to vent but he pulled me into his shit.

He was actually being super retarded and I couldnt say one thing to calm him, eventually he told me to fuck off and he got out of the car and stalked off.

That was the best part of it.

Thanks for your replies....

 

and he is a new friend, new friends freaking out can be kinda scary... and everyone who knows me knows that I just became single and I'm going through alot of shit... this outburst kinda made me sad about other things in my life... even though my life does kick ass there are alot of changes going on.

 

and yes, he didnt have his coffee yet so that was the point... I wanted to go get the coffee but my boobs were hanging out and I didnt want to go in and his hair looked shitty and he didnt want to go in and then he spazzed out. Silly shit.

 

and there is a new moon.

 

Love you tammy.

By the way I cry quietly so it wasnt at all weird.

 

whats the new moon have to do with anything? I think new friends freaking out can be kind of scary but really forgiving hin doesnt give him permission to do it again. Everyone has shit they are going through and as friends you should be there for one another and support eachother. Yelling is never respectful whether a man is yelling at a lady or vice versa. But it part of human nature.

 

tim hortons is holy ground to the coffee tweakers! he shall be stopped! haha, but no im not happy that your friend yelled at you but hopefully your friend apologizes and all is forgotton. just calm down and wait till he calls, you could say that you don't like hiim yelling at you and maybe try coffee again? idk, im not good with these problems but hopefully it works out.

 

haha, i was picturing a big scene in my head with coffee flying everywhere lol, i knew it wasn't that way but it's funnier in my head

 

WHAT!!! did you just dis Timmy's? do it once more buddy i fuckin dare ya!!!
haha, not really bein violent there....just love my timmy's

 

If its of any consolation to you, I totally think the boobs win out over shitty hair any day. It isn't easy to try to hide them behind crossed arms (especially if they're relatively large) and carry out coffee.

And if you couldn't tell, I speak from experience

 

lol I can tell you might know something about the cleavage, the thing is we could have just discussed who would go in, and he really didn't care about his hair normally. I'm thinking he just wanted to freak out and that's why it happened. He did apologize but I still feel kinda cold about it. And the new moon could mean somthing because people tend to behave differently when there is a new moon or a full moon... especially if you are a person who is in tune with natural law. Like me and my buddy thanks for asking about that though. It may sound weird to you.

I didnt cry in front of him for the record.

I think he should've just went in and got the coffee, told me how shitty he was feeling, and come eat perogies like we had planned. God I was wanting to feed him! It wouldve been all good.

I believe then intense need for the java made it all much worse.

I really think if I allow it it does give permission. I dont want to make mistakes.