used a condom, chances of pregnancy?

she didn't, but that's explainable (if you want me to go further in detail say so). besides, not all girls bleed their first time.

 

yeah i know some women were born w/o their hymen..
i just..idk..
how many times have you had sex?
just once?

 

twice. i'm not gonna try to convince you if you think she's been with other guys, think what you want. if you knew her irl it would be a different story though, just sayin

 

ok then if you really think that..she's just late
by next week she'll probably be on it
when i was younger my periods where scattered i'd have it one month and then i'd skip the other month..idk the body is weird

 

it's never happened to her before though, which is what bothers me. but i hope what you say holds true, only time will tell.

 

i hope so too
i wish you both the best of luck
situations like this are very scary...
thinking its time to get her bc

 

from my point of view, scary is quite the understatement :/
but yeah, we have already said that - whether she is pregnant or not - we would try and refrain from having sex for a little while.

as for bc, i'm not sure what kind or how she would be able to purchase this (or if i would be able to) since she's only 16, and approaching her family doctor would be quite awkward.

edit: and thanks for the luck, i hope it goes to good use!

 

go to your nearest planned parenthood and they give you bc for $40
i'm not sure if she'll need parent concent..but if so forge the sig

 

in ca you dont need parent consent for abortion, so i dont think bc would need that either (i hope). haha it makes sense

 

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-center/birth-control-services-25991.htm

here's the site

 

thanks, i'll check it out later.
and auri, for the first response tests, even though it says it can detect pregnancy as early as 6 days, she can use this same one if she's now 11 days late for her period, correct? or do we need to buy a certain pregnancy test that measures hcg levels after a missed period rather than before?

 

i really dont think it matters
its still a test that gives you clear results

 

I didn't have to pay anything when I went for birth control. I don't make enough money and they told me I could make a donation if I wished to. They give you a full year now (at least where I live) instead of making you come back month after month.

They ask for id dont they? So how could you use a fake signature? I hate how they try to catch you if you are using a fake name by CONSTANTLY quickly asking for your last name whenever you meet someone new there for all the things they ask you to do.

They also have privacy things they do-like they won't contact you at home if you ask, etc.

Birth control is for sure the way to go! Don't let her miss a day though!

 

i never went there until i was 18 and got free condoms and because i had a good paying job and no health insurance my bc was $40

 

alright, i hope it works out. i'll keep things updated once anything happens.

 

alright
good luck
[again]

 

so i bought the pregnancy test today, it was first response gold (i think) - came with 2 tests which read a digital 'yes +" or "no -"

now just have to wait til tomorrow morning for the results.

 

lol the suspence

 

*fingers crossed*

 

yea, i've already started looking into abortion in case she does end up pregnant. would we be able to have a lower-cost abortion since neither of us has an income of any sort?