I dont know what to do anymore, i broke up with my gf a month ago and i just cant get over her, i got a new girlfriend now but i still feel the love i once felt for her. The problem is that a month after beaking up with her (it was a mutual thing) she ran away from home to live with a 30 y/o guy which she consider "just her friend" and his m8...I told her that the only thing that this fucking bastard wants from her is sex but she cant even understand that! i called her house and her mum told me what happened and im really worried about her and what is going to happen. I feel like shit and even if i dont have a chance with her again, i just dont want her to be with a fucking 30 year old pedo...dont care if she does it with guys of my same age but NOT with him! please someone help me.
Aww *hugs* it takes time to get over a relationship. Thats how it was with me and my ex boyfriend. It sounds to me like she is using him as a rebound. You both moved on pretty quickly...which probably explains why in your case you still think about her even though you are with a new girl. In the end though you guys DID break up, and no matter what you want, it is her life to live. If in fact this guy only wants sex from her, then Im sure she will realize it on her own sooner or later. Sometimes people have to learn for themselves and there is nothing we can do to change that. Meanwhile...if this new girl you are with isnt doin it for you and you still find yourself still thinking of your ex, maybe you just need to be single for a while until you are over her. It's not fair for your new girlfriend to be with someone who is still in love with someone else, and its not fair for you to have to try to convince yourself you are over someone you obviously still have feelings for. The ony real healer is time... Anyways that is just my opinion...I hope everything works out for you
Aww. You sound like a sweet guy. OctoberMoon is right. She will have to figure things out on her own. I know you want to help her but people have to help themselves. There's no way around that. It takes time to get over someone that you loved a lot. I still love my ex-boyfriend a little and I probably always will. It doesn't hurt me to love him anymore. If anything it's more the memory that I love. We broke up on good terms and never hurt each other or anything. (Other than the break-up hurt). It's ok to still be in-love. Just don't let it take over your life and let yourself love other people. Maybe now is not the best time for you to be in another relationship but that's for you to decide. If your ex figures things out she will be happy to come back and now that she had a good FRIEND in you who always supported her. That's about all you can do. Good luck Saje
