but I wonder if anyone else can relate just a little bit... I have realized I get attached too easily to anyone who's nice to me, yeah. Umm it's kinda sad. i feel sick
_____________________________ You are a clingon. I know that I use to get attached but then I'd grow away from people. I don't like people that are nice nasty, phoney, or like me when it's the in thing. I'm real and if you are my friend, you are real.
I don't think your crazy. I used to get attached to people like that too. I think it's a part of growing up. Have you always been like that or are you just really noticing it now?
Well actually I am crazy, and I've always been very attached to the people I love and know well, but now I'm just so isolated from cool people or nice people, and when I do meet someone who is remotely decent, I become very attached to them, and feel like they are my friends and then I realize 'I don't even know this person'. And I wish I could write a little note saying 'will you be my friend, yes or no?' and they would say yes and we would live happily ever after... haha I'm losing it
i'm the exact opposite, anyone tries to get close and i run. as for being crazy,some would say i am, i would say not - i am just deeply sad.
Well that's me as well, no one can really get close but people that I have to deal with on a daily basis will sorta become fantasized in my mind, I wish I could let them get close and honestly I get a little possessive of them in my mind (like when I found out my professor was married I almost cried), but in reality they wouldn't know I feel that way at all, because I don't let people get close.
i can totally relate. i am mostly concerned with protecting myself that the things i want, in terms of relationships with people never happen. like a little while ago a lovely guy asked me out, we had been friends before, i got freaked out and ran. don't even talk to him anymore. i guess i am crazy lol!!!!
\ aww, that's sad, i used to do that, i can't say what i would do if that happened now though, but in a way it was a good thing, it shielded me from being hurt up until this year, I'm glad I didn't have to deal with that kinda drama in high school, that woulda sucked.