I think many people have seen Friends TV series, and there was Monica, so my wife's totally like her sometimes. She cleans every day, and even several times a day, so there's no time left for anything else. We often get late to meet our friends, or when we go to the movies or some other place, and she always gets very tired in the evening and frustrated too. She says that the problem is that we still live with her parents and she has to clean after everyone (she doesn't let anyone help her - cuz - like Monica - she's the only one who can do it right), but so far we have to. That's really depressing sometimes, though at first it was kinda funny. I wonder is there anybody else with the same trouble?
dude, why are you complaining? you can be the biggest slob you want and everything will still get cleaned. she never even asks for your help! does she have a sister?
Why dont you have her teach you how to clean to her standards? That way you can help take some of her stress away.
Yeah, I know at first it may sound awesome - and most people think so, but when there's too much of it it's no good. She cleans the apartment all the day long, and in the night she often feels too tired for anything else. And sometimes she gets so frustrated of the dust, dirt, but especially when her father cooks something in the kitchen and it gets too dirty, that she even starts yelling at everyone and starts weeping.
She's not totally insane, she's great as for all the other stuff. And when I met her we weren't living with her parents all the time we just used to stay at them for a weekend. And her mom says that she wasn't like that before she met me, she used to have much calmer attitude to cleaning.
Have you ever thought that maybe you frustrate her? I mean instead of asking her if you can help while she is cleaning, just get up and clean. I'd be pissed if I was the only one cleaning. Other wise it could be because it calms her. I have two friends who clean like mad when they are pissed.
