Hey guys , long time reader first time poster so basically i met a girl about 2 yrs ago and we had a thing and she was prettymuch perfect. not long after we got serious she had a change of heart and we had a pretty bad breakup, to save myself the heartbreak i severed any way to speak to her or contact her again i.e deleting phone numbers , facebook, old email / texts so that i could just forget about her and move on. about a month ago i got an email from her "hey... i got your msg ages ago and have been so busy thats why i didnt write back look i dont hate you or whatever you think i was hurt by what you said to me so yeah i hope things are all ok and your doing well.... talk to you sometime....take care " this blew my mind considering i had almost forced her out of my head and i have no idea what to write back to her. is it 1. a possible second chance 2. some kind of weird peace offering 3 written for the hell of it and i shouldnt bother writing back this email has been on my mind every day since i got it, it blows lol sorry about the long read guys , any advice would help
whatever you do, reading into things will just torment the shit out of you. Do whatever you think makes the most sense. If you feel the email warrants a response send her one back. Stay strong. its going to be hard not to let it fuck with your head, but I would just take it at face value for the time being. You already went through the break up process once.
Looks like a possible second chance, but don't act like you think it is, and if it is you gotta take charge and don't let her hurt you again!! In the meantime, accept it as a peace offering!
My last serious girlfriend got back in touch with me in a similar way. I thought, 'wicked, maybe, just maybe..'. Turns out she just wanted to establish conversation long enough so she could start to mentioned how brilliant her life was, her new boyfriend was, and probably see me lose my rag. I just told her that is was all very nice, and then never spoke to her again. Honestly, it did hurt my feelings so I do believe these sort of things should be considered carefully. Sorry for that bout of narcissism there, just felt maybe comparatively speaking it may help.
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Might take a peak, need a new read at the moment. After a quick google search, it does sound interesting. I don't need help getting women at all, but I seem to be attracted to the 'bad girls', and it spins my head every time.
I wouldn't assume you needed help getting women. The Game touches on everything to do with them! after reading I finally "understood" women Especially the bad girls
It doesn't sound to me like she is trying to get you back. Though if she really does want you, the ball is in her court and she cannot really expect you to understand that is what this email was meant for. But to me it sounds like she is trying to make peace. It just sounds like she wants you to know that there are no hard feelings from her toward you, and in letting you know this, she probably hopes you have no hard feelings toward her either. But that is just how I would read into it.
