Will I ever have a girlfriend?

I don't know how to approach women.....I guess the idea is really new to me seeing as how im only this year openly bisexual. Any thoughts or tips?

 

I dunno, I find it way easier to hit on girls than guys.. not that I should be doing that while I'm attached, but it's hard not to flirt with cute girls, especially while a little tipsy.. and I'm not even really into girls.. heh..

Just be confident and approach them the way you like to be approached, I guess... I've never had a girl slap me for flirting or anything and I'm not even cute... Be yourself.. you'll be fine

 

if you're truly bisexual, what difference does it make? hit on whoever attracts you; if you get a woman, good for you. if you get a man, good for you.

well that's a lot of BS, particularly line 1...

it's probably easier to joke around with girls, because they know you're not serious...

 

Why would I waste my time joking? I like to spread the lady love, especially if she's cute. I'm in a relationship and I don't cheat, but there's nothing wrong with harmless flirting. I like getting hit on by girls just as much as guys, maybe more, because IMO it takes BALLS (figuratively in my case, of course) to approach a girl, so I appreciate the attention...

/thread hijacking

 

All I mean to say is that, either way whatever I get is beautiful. But i'm just used to approaching men or having men approach me. I'm not really sure what women like to hear, I can only go by what I like, and im some what of an eccentric random person and i'm sure it wouldn't be beneficial to hit on them the way I would like to be hit on. I never know whether or not a girl is bisexual or lesbian unless i'm in an obvious setting like a gay bar but even then straight women go there to dance.

 

I wish I could help, but I can't capture the attention of either men or women.

 

Itll happen.

 

Well you could begin by smiling at her while making eye contact from across the room.

When you approach her ask her if she’d like a drink, then somewhere along way casually slip in the pickup line “I was cleaning the carpet the other day and I somehow managed to break a nail" nod nod wink wink

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Tips, definitely.

 

I think you probably have a distinct advantage over me these days.

I could say "let them come to you", but I am not sure if that tactic works with lesbians.

If there is a local women's scrabble tournament going on in your town that might be a good way to meet them...

 

Or at any other women's sporting event where there are always lesbian groupies hanging out in masse ready to descend upon any unsuspecting young girl not entirely certain about her sexual preference


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that's funny. some women can't go out without being groped or begged to grope...

 

There's a lot that we don't know about your situation, like whether you're near a large city. If not, you may have some trouble. Also, are you looking for a serious relationship or just sex? You're at the age where there are always bi-curious girls around who only want to play.

 

Flirt

If you're not good at flirting hang out with a natural flirt and watch what the person says and does.

Jeez people it's not that difficult. If you are turned down you are turned down and move on.

 

Just look at her pictures :cheers2:

I guarantee if she walks into a lesbian bar she walks out with a butch around each arm
and a brass band in tow


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But you can't find one of those just anywhere. That's a big problem in some areas. I have to drive over an hour to find any kind of bar where people socialize.

 

if you can't find someone similar to you you probably wouldn't last long together, anyway.


unless of course you're just looking for sex... then it really doesn't matter what either of y'all are into.

 

Well if you live that far out in the boonies then you do have a problem



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oh bull. if dave's aunt can find gay hang outs in farmington, nm, in the bible belt and catholic country, there's a way.

 

I figured that much

I’m sure there are lesbian hangouts even in the most remote regions

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