That's one way to look at it, but like I said, you could still have a chance to be the one to make him happy later on.
I don't think i'm prepared emotionally to handle loving someone so much. Or to be unselfish enough to put my adventures on hold to be with someone.
But loving someone so much, can be one of the best feelings ever imo. Why not take him along with you on your adventures?
ya he knows, I did at one point I told him I loved him. not to his face...... but um he wants to go for coffee when hes in town? but I dont want to.
You could always go for coffee just to visit with a friend? Never hurts to keep in touch and keep a good friend relationship.
If you're not ready for a relationship, you cannot expect a young man to wait for you unless you're in a movie. Sounds like he got fed up of you saying "I don't want to" and moved on.