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  1. wastingthedawn

    wastingthedawn *~Pure Light~*

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    Hello...This is for my sociology class...I'm really sorry if it's sort of crappy...but taking it would be a massive help to me...because it's due on Monday and I can't find enough people to take it...please help me out...

    Homosexuality: Coming Out Of the Closet

    Hello, I’m conducting a study for homosexual youth on the coming out process and its effect on families. If you could fill out this quick survey and answer the questions accurately and honestly it would be greatly appreciated and a huge help to my study. Thank you!


    1) State your gender. ( ) Male ( ) Female

    2) Age? ( )10-13 ( )14-16 ( )17-19 ( )20+

    3) Sexual Orientation?

    ( )Gay ( )Bi-sexual ( )Not sure

    4) Have you always known? ( )Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure

    5) Does your family know? ( )Yes ( )No

    6) Do your friends know? ( )Yes ( )No

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? ( )Yes ( )No

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? ( )Yes ( )No

    9) Are they tolerant people? ( )Yes ( )No

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? ( )Yes ( )No

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? ( )Yes ( )No

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? ( )Yes ( )No

    13) If you answered no to questions #5 Do you ever intend to tell your family? ( ) Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure



    Thank you for filling out this survey, your time and effort has been a huge help!
     
  2. LadyKimo

    LadyKimo Member

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    1) State your gender. ( ) Male ( X) Female

    2) Age? ( )10-13 ( )14-16 ( )17-19 (X )20+


    3) Sexual Orientation?

    ( )Gay ( X)Bi-sexual ( )Not sure
    But, lean toward being a lesbian.
    4) Have you always known? ( )Yes ( )No ( X)Not Sure
    Always knew I was different, just took me some time to realise it

    5) Does your family know? ( X)Yes ( )No

    6) Do your friends know? ( X)Yes ( )No

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? (X )Yes ( )No

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? ( )Yes (X )No

    9) Are they tolerant people? (X )Yes ( )No

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? ( )Yes (X )No

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? ( )Yes (X )No
    I was miserable before, I was not being honest to myself and my family, so I had to come out.

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? ( )Yes ( X)No

    13) If you answered no to questions #5 Do you ever intend to tell your family? ( ) Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure

    If you have any other question, feel free to pm me! Hope this helps
     
  3. rocknroll_girl

    rocknroll_girl Member

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    1) State your gender. Female

    2) Age? 17-19

    3) Sexual Orientation? Lesbian

    4) Have you always known? To an extent, but I didn't "figure it out" until about age 14.

    5) Does your family know? Yes

    6) Do your friends know? Yes

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? Yes

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? Yes - well, they didn't really say "this is what it is," but they always introduced me to gay friends, exposed me to the culture a bit

    9) Are they tolerant people? They are accepting, wonderful people. I am very fortunate.

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? No

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? Never.

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? Yes

    13) If you answered no to questions #5 Do you ever intend to tell your family?
     
  4. Taylor

    Taylor Repatriated

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    Here you go.
     
  5. asnakeinthegrass

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    1) State your gender. (* ) Male ( ) Female

    2) Age? ( )10-13 ( )14-16 ( )17-19 ( *)20+

    3) Sexual Orientation?

    ( )Gay (* )Bi-sexual ( )Not sure

    4) Have you always known? ( *)Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure

    5) Does your family know? ( )Yes (* )No

    6) Do your friends know? ( )Yes ( *)No

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? (* )Yes ( )No

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? ( )Yes ( *)No

    9) Are they tolerant people? ( )Yes (* )No

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? ( )Yes ( )No

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? ( )Yes ( )No

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? ( )Yes (* )No

    13) If you answered no to questions #5 Do you ever intend to tell your family? ( ) Yes (* )No ( )Not Sure
     
  6. Fractual_

    Fractual_ cosmos factory

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    1) State your gender. ( ) Male ( ) Female

    2) Age? ( )10-13 ( )14-16 ( )17-19 ( )20+

    3) Sexual Orientation?

    ( )Gay ( )Bi-sexual ()Not sure

    4) Have you always known? ( )Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure

    5) Does your family know? ( )Yes ( )No

    6) Do your friends know? ( )Yes ( )No

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? ( )Yes ( )No

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? ( )Yes ( )No

    9) Are they tolerant people? ( )Yes ( )No

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? ( )Yes ( )No NA

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? ( )Yes ( )No

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? ( )Yes ( )No

    13) If you answered no to questions #5 Do you ever intend to tell your family? ( ) Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure
     
  7. Defence_mechanism

    Defence_mechanism Member

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    1) State your gender. Female

    2) Age? 17-19

    3) Sexual Orientation? Gay

    4) Have you always known? No

    5) Does your family know? Yes

    6) Do your friends know? Yes

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? Yes

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? Yes

    9) Are they tolerant people? Yes

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? No

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? No

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? No
     
  8. Snowdancer

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    1) State your gender. ( ) Male ( ) Female ( X ) Genderqueer

    2) Age? ( )10-13 ( )14-16 ( )17-19 (X)20+

    3) Sexual Orientation?

    ( )Gay (X)Bi-sexual ( )Not sure

    4) Have you always known? ( )Yes (X)No ( )Not Sure

    5) Does your family know? ( )Yes ( )No(X)Some do

    6) Do your friends know? (X)Yes ( )No

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? ( )Yes ( )No(X)Some

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? ( )Yes (X)No

    9) Are they tolerant people? ( )Yes ( )No(X)Some

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? ( )Yes ( )No(X)Not the ones I told

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? ( )Yes (X)No

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? ( )Yes (X)No

    13) If you answered no to questions #5 Do you ever intend to tell your family? ( ) Yes ( )No (X)Not Sure if I'll tell those that don't know
     
  9. ericf

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    1) State your gender. ( ) Male ( ) Female

    Male

    2) Age? ( )10-13 ( )14-16 ( )17-19 ( )20+

    24

    3) Sexual Orientation?

    A little Bi-sexual but more attracted to women.

    4) Have you always known? ( )Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure

    I have always had a very liberal view on sex and sexuality. Did I ever think of myself as gay or bi? Not really... but I never thought of myself as straight either. I am just me. I guess this falls into the "Not Sure" group.

    5) Does your family know? ( )Yes ( )No

    Absolutelly not, they would not be accepting of it in any manner.

    6) Do your friends know? ( )Yes ( )No

    Same as my family, I live in a very religious area.

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? ( )Yes ( )No

    I would say I have a fairly good relationship. Although there are certain areas where my family has never been very close. Talking about "personal" matters like sexuality is far too intimate for them. I guess I'll say "No."

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? ( )Yes ( )No

    No Way! Gay people are an abomination (their feelings) and talking about it would only be teaching people to be gay. It is the same way they view sex-ed... "If we never tell them about it then they can't do it."

    9) Are they tolerant people? ( )Yes ( )No

    Absolutelly not. My mom disgusts me with her hatred of homosexuals. She also shows some signs of being a little racist... which pisses me off. I have torn into her enough on these topics that she rarely says anything around me. Almost all of my family is very homophobic. Although some of the younger people seem to be fairly less homophobic.

    My father, on the other hand, is very tolerant. But I didn't live with him growing up. We recently had a conversation where gay marriage came up and he said he couldn't see a logical reason to not allow it.

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? ( )Yes ( )No

    N/A

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? ( )Yes ( )No

    N/A -- I am not really "out" per say. There are a few people who know I would be open to getting freaky with a guy if the mood struck me but for the most part I lean very strongly towards being straight. I've never been with a guy and I may never be with one. Coming out seems a little foolish given my circumstances.

    I might not fit into your criteria for your class because I am fairly straight. I just admit to being open to new experiences. I don't see the need to come out because I don't see my sexuality as something that is in anyway abnormal. I think that most honest people who didn't have hangups would admit to feeling this way. I don't know... maybe people don't.

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? ( )Yes ( )No

    No. I don't see the point.

    13) If you answered no to questions #5 Do you ever intend to tell your family? ( ) Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure

    Nope.
     
  10. wastingthedawn

    wastingthedawn *~Pure Light~*

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    Thank you all so much for helping me out on this! I still need a couple more, but it's really coming along. If anyone is uncomfortable posting their answers, you could always email them to me at the_goblinqueen@hotmail.com

    Thanks again!
     
  11. daysye

    daysye dumb as a box of hammers

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    1) State your gender. ( ) Male (X) Female

    2) Age? ( )10-13 ( )14-16 ( )17-19 (X)20+

    3) Sexual Orientation?

    (X)Gay ( )Bi-sexual ( )Not sure

    4) Have you always known? (X)Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure

    5) Does your family know? (X)Yes ( )No

    6) Do your friends know? (X)Yes ( )No

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? (X)Yes ( )No

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? (X)Yes ( )No

    9) Are they tolerant people? (X)Yes ( )No

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? ( )Yes (X)No

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? ( )Yes (X)No

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? ( )Yes (X)No

    13) If you answered no to questions #5 Do you ever intend to tell your family? ( ) Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure
     
  12. MentalFloss

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    1) State your gender. (X ) Male ( ) Female

    2) Age? ( )10-13 (X )14-16 ( )17-19 ( )20+

    3) Sexual Orientation?

    (X )Gay ( )Bi-sexual ( )Not sure

    4) Have you always known? ( )Yes (X )No ( )Not Sure

    5) Does your family know? (X )Yes ( )No

    6) Do your friends know? (X )Yes ( )No

    7) Did you, or do you have a close relationship with your family? ( )Yes (X )No

    8) In your childhood did your family ever educate you about homosexuality? (X )Yes ( )No
    My mom just told me that it would be okay if I was, if you consider that educating...

    9) Are they tolerant people? (X )Yes (X )No
    My mom was, my dad isn't

    10) If you answered yes to question #7 did this change after you told them? ( )Yes (X)No

    11) Have you ever regretted coming out? ( )Yes (X )No

    12) Have you ever attended any gay or lesbian support groups? ( )Yes (X)No

    13) If you answered no to questions #5 Do you ever intend to tell your family? ( ) Yes ( )No ( )Not Sure
     

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