Would you consider me slutty?

You're a slut, but that doesn't have to be a bad thing unless you let it.

 

There's a difference between behaviors, but only one word to describe them. Obviously, as the old saying goes, if a man does it, he's a stud, but if a woman does it, she's a slut. Fair's fair. What is wrong, or right, for one sex should be essentially the same for the other.

A woman who wonders if she is a slut based on her behavior should first decide where on the line she lies (no pun). Does she do anything with anybody anytime, or does she do whatever she does because she likes doing it and the person she is doing it with?

Whichever the answer, many people only have the one word to describe it.

I do not know of a reference work you can go to and get an exact answer, so you can only ask for opinions and try to make sense out of them. Go to people who don't believe sex is normal and okay, and they will tell you that you are a "bad" slut. Go to people who feel that sex IS normal and sex with various people is okay, and they will tell you that you are okay, but still a "slut" because that's the only word we have.

My personal opinion is that if you enjoy what you are doing, and are fair and honest with the people you are involved with, and it does not negatively disrupt your life, and you can comfortably look in the mirror before, during and after each act and say to yourself, "I am okay with who I am and what I do," then there is not a problem.

Just an opinion.

 

Me too.

 

Yes, your a slut.

Why does everyone try to say someone who has alot of sex not slutty. Yoiu are. But what's wrong with that.

Your a slut, just own up to it. Be proud or be sad. It's up to you, but it doesn't change the fact that you are one. Enjoy!

 

No, im at 4. i'm 19. you're good. wtf is a slut anyways. why are you demeaning females this way by asking a stupid question like this. am I a slut for being free, being sexually free and sleeping with who I want? thats just retarted. no you're not a slut. are guys sluts when they go and fuck everything wtih a pair of legs no.....to me your a slut if yuor getting paid or your constantly out for sexual attention. when its all about you all the fucking time. but hey if you like someone and you sleep with them. your just giving your body what it needs. what is with this deluded generation I swear to god I was born at the wrong time. hello, we already had a sexual revulution. have orgys, have 3 sums, do whatever the fuck you want. because it's only the people who are to involoved in trying to be approved by society that will ever call you a slut. be removed. be................free.

 

and to all of you who called this girl a slut, at 19 who has had sex and fooled around with that many people, wtf are you doing on hip forums seriously? why are you in free love. ITS FREE!! FREE LOVE, hello. fucking fakes.

 

Dictionary says a slut is a promiscuous person or one who doesn't confine sex to one person

 

Now you may not like that definition, but it is what it is. If you like being a slut, then be proud, don't try to change the definition just because you don't like it. Just accept that that is what you are and move on. You can't change the definition of hot or cold. They are what they are. You either like being hot or you like being cold or you like both. But they are what they are.

 

Well..... yeah.

 

no not really. cs you are verry young....in my view it depends on where you go from here tho....
but im not one to judge people. each to their own, as long as they use protection.

 

What dictionary are you getting that definition from. The 2 most popular dictionaries on the internet have different definitions than that.

 

You will get old.You will lose your sex drive.You will die. 100 years from now no one will remember your name or anything you've done.Guaranteed. Dead , from what I gather, is a fairly long period of time. Therefore---use what you have -any way you want. You are not accountable to us or anyone else. Call yourself whatever you wish.---and have fun.

 

I wouldn't call you a slut
but someone with no self-respect.

 

Lets try this.

Yes I do, wanna hang out?

 

I'd consider you sexy.

 

what makes you think the OP has no self respect? the fact she sleeps around?
perhaps she respects herself, her body and her experience of life enough to not hold herself back just because of what others may think?

sexual promiscuity is not necessarily a symptom of low self esteem/respect

 

I dont find you a slut, just honest about how many people you have slept with. so many people lie about things like that. I have been sexually active before I should have, (11 lost my virginity). but it is all a part of me and made me who I am. Sex is an natural act, nothing slutty about it. If you choose to have sex with a million guys I wouldnt care, if that is what you wanted to do. I have been with quite a few men and women, I have only had 1 one night stand. but that is me. DO what you want, just be safe about it. and Dont go by those stupid stereotypes of sluts, and dont listen to what people call you, do what you want. I am an extremely horny person, so I love lots of sex. I personally stick to one person at a time though. But each to their own.

 

Certainly not a slut. I think you are just a sexual being who knows what they like. Who is anyone to judge? I have done some things that some people would probably consider slutty, but I am comfortable with me, so I am ok with it.

 

Maybe she is a slut. How the fuck is anyone supposed to know from one paragraph? I don't trust anyones self-description as a general rule.

 

AGAIN ITS MY OPINION...
check the title of this thread.