Im in second year of college and there is a girl in the first year that looks so cute, i seriously like her blue eyes....to make it simple, i really fancy her. Anyways, i dont know anything about her but i really want to get to know her but i just cant do it, i get to nervous when i talk to girls, i dont know why thought. I think i have a good personality, i can make people laugh but im not the nicest guy around in terms of looks and thats what is worring me, the problem is that if i go and talk to her i might get rejected or anything like that because now days girls are more into looks than personality. Please can someone help me, i know time is going by and i dont want to lose it before its too late. thank you.
Get to know her slowly, don't just come out straight away and tell her that you fancy her. You have to make friends with her before that and then she will get to know your personality and overlook any problems you think you have with your looks (which I'm sure you have none) and see what a nice guy you are Also I think that if you get to know her slowly, or as a friend first you wont be as shy because you don't need to worry about her fancying you straight away and you can be more relaxed around her. And if you are worried about time running out with her then remember that a friend always lasts longer than a little fling Good luck mate
thanks for replying but its hard, i really like her and i want to get to know her well but i dont want to waste time and stuff, i been hurt so many times in my 18 years of existance and it would hurt knowing that i lost a good chance of being with that gorgeous girl just because i came late 2 her. I just get to nervous when i try to talk to her.
I promise you, 100 percent ... rejection is better than wondering "what if" ten years later. Rejection doesn't mean there's something wrong with you ... it only means that you didn't fit a mold of what one person was looking for. I wish I'd had this attitude 10 years ago. It makes asking someone out much easier. And here's a great tip I once learned for talking to a woman you're interested in. Don't go into the conversation thinking "Will she like me?" Rather, go into it thinking "Will I like her?" That simple change in thinking gives you an air of confidence that can be very hard to fake. Good luck.
