Dear gay people,

I have no problem with gay people. I'm think anything that makes someone happy is good as long as you're not hurting anyone.

But the only thing that really does piss me off is when they try to 'test' you even after you say you don't groove to that beat. I actually used to have this friend and one time he kept grabbing at my ass. I told him to stop a few times but he was just laughing like it was some joke. Eventually I had to punch him in the mouth. lol. Sexual harassment man. Not cool once that line has been made clear.

I get it's probably a lot harder to find someone to be with when you're gay. There is a lot of ignorance and hate out there. And a lot of gay men aren't open about that stuff so it makes sense you have to 'test the water'. But fuck, you have to respect a guys boundaries. That's all.

/end random ass rant

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

what you described can be said just the same for straight people. there are plenty of ignorant straight people who pursue someone who swings the other way because they think they are so fabulous, they will "turn" the other person straight/make them realize what theyre missing out on. HA

 

i can be fabulous

 

as if rather a lot of 'straight' people aren't equally inclined to do much the same annoying thing. uninvited 'liberties' are the same abuse, regardless of gender or 'preference'.

i remember being something of a little perv in my high school days, because that's the way nature makes us at that age. (straight in my case, but not want does equal not want as i understand now)

pity though in a way, that we live in a world so overpopulated and with so many hang ups.

 

lol. you said butt fuck.

 

hahahah.

i despise being groped. even swinging the same way doesn't mean you're attracted to that person and want them groping you. i hate that. wait for a freaking invite.

 

Freudian slip

A definite sign of repressed homosexuality


Hotwater

 

Men do this sort of thing to women all the time...

 

I think you sort of got a taste of what plenty of girls have to put up with on a regular basis. This is not to say you (or anyone) deserve(s) it. This sort of behavior is not only shown by gay men though. I know many women deal with this sort of thing often. And I am sure that we women have done it to men also. And women to women. If it was me, I would just try to get away. If this person was hanging out with my friend, I would make some lame excuse about feeling sick. I don't really think violence is necessary, but I know what is and is not okay with me. I am sorry you felt violated.

 

So true!

A guy at school used to grope me and when I would get mad about it he would call me a dumb ****. So quit your bitchin' you dumb ****!

 

ugh. i think it's more a product of masculine aggression, posturing and dominance games. as such, some women are more prone to it than in previous generations.

 

Exactly! If someone tells you not to touch them, then don't touch them whether you're gay, straight, or whatever. It's just rude.

 

Agreed.

 

Its because we can’t imagine you not wanting us


Hotwater

 

yeah harassment is harassment. I don't think it's that wrong to punch someone because of it.
It's a clash of normality i think too. when gayness is eventually more normal, i think there'd be less and less of an excuse to do shit like that.
And if the gay guy wants to know if the straight guy is curious, the straight guy knows hes gay so if he wants to make a move he will. It puts a bad name to other gay guys when they pull that bullcrap

 

i woulda pegged you as a gentleman.

 

Next time he gropes you, tell him that if he doesn't stop, your boyfriend is going to beat him up.

 

lol.

I haven't even seen the dude in years. A conversation I was having with someone just made me think of it.

Is it just as bad for a guy to just 'go for it' and try to kiss a girl?

I'm sure it can make them feel awkward, but honestly it has more of a success rate than saying "Hey, lets talk about our feelings, I like-like you"

And if they show any sign of not being into it I'll back off right away. I don't think that's as bad. Society kinda says that one is okay.

Womans opinions?