I've been doing oral on my man for a long time, but one thing I've never been able to do is deep throat him. Like, I've tried but I just can't do it, I can't get in that far because it just won't go. My throat is too tight/small or something, and if I tried to push it in I can't because it hurts very badly. BTW, no he isn't exceptionally large... he's only about 7 inches and of average thickness so I think the problem is me ;( Is this normal? Does anyone else have this problem? Is there any solution for it?
The true "deep throat" is the exact same technique as sword swallowing. You tip your head back, so that your mouth and your esophagus line up, suppress the gag reflex, and it goes as far down your esophagus as it can reach (or, for an actual sword, to your stomach!) Most people can't just go around suppressing their physical reflexes. I have been with one woman who actually did the true deep throat. And to tell the truth, it felt good, but not really any better or different than women that just take me in their mouth as far as they can, and use their hands for the rest (hint). If you can swallow a sword, you can be a circus freak. If you can swallow a penis, it's certainly impressive (and freaky!), but it's far from the only way to please your man.
I started MDMA deep throat therapy It helps relax those muscles and soon enough you learn how to do it sober.. Not saying that you need to go eat some E, but it helps you learn.
Practice. Every morning when you brush your teeth----brush your tounge, and over time just keep brushing your tounge further and further back. It took me a year to get his dick way back there without gagging and I still always gag when his hands are on the back of my head pushing harder and harder. I love it and he loves it. JUST DON"T do it right after you have eaten. You don't want to hurl. And don't rush it- take your time and worship that shaft and he will love what you are doing.
Like others have said, this is something that requires practice and time. It will come, no pun intended. One thing I noticed, when I am doing it, I find that if I focus on me gagging or it hittting my reflex, I do. But, if I focus more on please and how it gets him off, then I get turned on, and my focus is elsehwere, and I can deepthroat him much better.
