ok i just had sex with this guy last night and it was freaking amazing, we did it 4 times-3 last night and 1 time this morning. I got off multiple times each time we did it, but he only came 2 of those times. sooo, should i feel bad that he didnt cum those other 2 times--like was it not really good for him, or is 2 outta 4 not bad for like a 12 hour time frame? im askin cuz ive never really done it that many times in such a short time before and ive never had a prob with a guy not cumming before so it kinda hurt my ego a little. Any comments will be appreciated
Don't worry about it. Once every three hours, for me (which I've never done! ) would be INSANE and more than likely I wouldn't cum all of those times.
Yeah dont stress its perfectly normal.. when my girlfriend and i used to do the marathon sex she would cum like 3 times per session and we would do around 4 sessions a night.. and i would only cum like once or twice.. guys arent like girls we dont get the joy of multiple multiple orgasms lol.. i wish we did sometimes.. i had an ex who would squirt and she could cum like 6 times per session.. and the bed would be soaked.. it was sad lol
Yeah, in my heyday I could ejaculate maybe twice a night, but I'd need an hour or two to recover and "refill" my tanks. You're lucky that he can get an erection so soon. Some guys can't. Don't fret about it; as with women, that sort of sex is really enjoyable, even though there's no actual climax. Nowadays (I'm getting old) I'm lucky to get off once a night. Sigh. Recall fondly the days when my girl and I would bang it out three-four times a night......
with guys if the blow a load once... they are good for the rest of the night.. They can go again for however long and be cool with not cuming again.. I just did it actually... me and my girl just fucked for about 4 hour.. I got off after about an hour... waited about 2 min... then jumped back on top for 3 more hours... till i got way 2 exausted and she was sore... I still have not cum for the 2nd time... and guys go alot longer the 2nd time!!!
I am proud of the Ability to cum inside of her...then keep going with no break at all for a second round...
Of all things, a woman should never worry about a guy's orgasm, as long as she has one. But most gals have the idea that they have 'responsibilities.' The greatest gift a woman can give a man in sex is to orgasm herself. We can orgasm on call. Masturbation is always an alternative. A guy really needs to concentrate on sex to cause a woman to orgasm (that's why so many gals never have one, selfish boys don't concentrate - disgraceful!) Those men may not even have one orgasm - so what, if their lady is satisfied. Forget the gd guilt, lady - you are confusing the issue. The issue is you having an orgasm. Period. He can blow almost at will then or later. Never fall for the 'poor man,' who doesn't get off...smack him in the face! You are especially fortunate in getting a guy reliable enough to keep you going all through the night. He's fortunate in having a partner who enjoys his efforts. Not one guy in this forum feels sorry for him, and we all are jealous of his ability to keep it up and to have found a woman such as you. Give him our regards, and may the sex gods keep you in their arms.
Yup. We guys have to "reload" before we can fire again. And the sad thing is, the older we get, the longer it takes. I still do OK, but I'm not the "madman" that I was in my younger days. But don't worry too much. Sex still feels good, even if we can't "finish." Sounds like your guy had a great night! Damn, I miss those madman days!
you should be offended op i would've came all 4 of those times. I'm just teasing a bit. Like with most things, i'm sure different guys have different rates of regenerating the ability to cum. For whatever reason, I've been blessed with the ability to easily cum twice in an hour, and in that time span you are saying i have done 4 ejaculations numerous times.
One point, I had an ex who was very similar...she would soak the sheets and me as well before our session was done. I however would come, then focus a little on her, make her squirt about 2 more times and then I'd be ready again. About a 15-20 min gap. Honestly, it was the best sex life I've had to date. But yea, just like everyone else has said in different ways. One, guys can't come as much as women can...so 4 sessions and 2 orgasms isn't bad at all. It actually surprises me the amount of women who feel it's a hit to their ego like they are doing something wrong. Granted, I've felt this feeling when I had a gf who never had an orgasm (we were younger, so it was understandable). But you must also realize, our goal half of the time isn't for us to get off, it's for you to get off. If I let all inhibitions go, I can come very easily and quite quickly when inside a woman...but who wants 5 minute sex? Then I'm done and feel like there was more to be had. So I'll hold off, vary speeds, stop and orally stimulate you or work with my hands some, then back to sex. I feel awful if I come and she hasn't. So if it means wearing her out with 3+ multiple orgasms and being forced to take a break without having an orgasm myself...so be it. You must realize that giving a woman an orgasm is basically a mental orgasm to a man without the physical discharge. And yes, is even more erotic with squirters.
Most guys have to "reload" before they can cum a second time, or more. I can recall a few times where I kept going after the first orgasm, got hard again, and came a second time without getting out of the saddle. However, concentrating on the orgasm is ignoring the best part - the process of getting there. The orgasm lasts 8-10 seconds, but the process of getting there, feeling it come closer and closer, and then inevitable, is where it is really at. That is the meal; the orgasm is the dessert.
Good point. I'd like to be able to have multiple orgasms. However, it's not that important to me honestly. If we could have only 1 orgasm a day that would probably suck but most guys can have a lot of orgasms in a single night if they choose to, as long as there are breaks in between. I can tell you I have never tried to see how many I can have in one period of time, usually one or two a day is enough. It doesn't matter whether I can have 5 or 20 a day. Sooner or later I am going to want to do something else. Sometimes I even prefer to wait. Sure most women are capable of having more orgasms in a shorter amount of time than men, but I doubt the ladies of the world aim for their full potential most of the time. my point is that we are both capable of more orgasms than we actually have. Quality trumps quantity, and orgasms are only part of that.
