My boyfriend and I started having sex a while ago... and its still not feeling good. Like it feels vaguely good having is penis inside me without a rubber on, but like even when he's sliding in and out and enjoying himself, I'm not. Like I don;t know how else to describe it, it just doesn't make me feel good at all! He 7 inches and just wide enough so I can completely wrap my hand arond his dick but like what am I doing wrong? why can't I get any pleasure out of sex?
i think maybe you need to relax a little and spend a bit more time on forplay, it shouldn't be all about him, you need to get pleasure from it also!!
You have to get into it otherwise it's just a thing going into another thing. Take deep breaths and moan, and spend more time on foreplay, kissing and rubbing against each other and talking dirty. Think about what turns you on while doing it.
Lots and lots of foreplay. When I first started having sex, it didn't feel good to me either and it took me quite a while to really start getting into it. I think part of my problem was that I was nervous and then I just kept getting more and more nervous about how it wasn't "feeling right" and that just made it worse. So try to relax and make sure to let your boyfriend know what you like and try new things. Hope it gets better for you!
Yeah, try to relax more. If you are worried about it not feeling good it will make it harder to relax. Like antithesis said, try lot's of foreplay and take it slowly for a while.
