dont freak out, till 2 lines appear. Be there for her. and talk to her about whether she would keep an potential child or not. There are many options, adoption, abortion . Kids area ton of work, great but if you arent ready to be a parent it can be too much. I hope things go the way you want them to.
Condoms may suck, but HIV, the clap, teen pregnancy and various other ailments suck as well. FOREVER!!! The condom only sucks for a few minutes.
I didn't want to bring stereotypes into it, but this is really a bible belt mentality. Oh well. Let Gawd take care of it because I chose to be lazy and ignant...
Dude, a couple of my ex's were late a few times, and they ended up not being pregnant. Don't worry about it until you're 100% sure that there is actually anything to worry about.
lol.... fo sho! Wait!! I go to the dirt mall sometimes!!! I would LOVE to end the stereotype, but I can see it now. This kid is going to someday be 40, sitting on his stoop in the trailer park, lookin' at his 23 year old daughter playing with her 10 year old daughter wishin' like fuck that he'd pulled out!! Or at least reached for the box of condoms.
Agreed. I'm a new mom and I'm going to be honest with you; I love my little boy with all my heart but waking up at least three times every night straight for the last five months is KICKING MY ASS. There are upsides and downsides - weigh your pros and cons so you know where you stand, but remember she's the one who will either go through the abortion procedure, or she'll carry him/her for nine months and give the baby to an adoption agency, or keep the baby and then have the same (if not more) responsibilities you have. No one can tell you two what's best, just be realistic and for the gods' sake, be easy with the poor girl. I remember how terrified I was, and not only was I married, we'd been trying for almost a year. It gets seriously rough when you've got all those hormones raging.
Like TopNotch said just because shes late does not mean shes pregnant. I had an ex tell me she was late and might be pregnant, ended up she was just crazy. The fucked up part to that is I was 15 at the time. Definitely not good news at that age. Life happens and some times you find yourself neck deep in it. Good Luck. Its not nice to stereotype. I would be upset if you were stereotyping me. Good thing I live in a camper park and not a trailer park.
whatever idealistic beliefs you hold, stereotypes are there for a reason. not always true, but still there for a reason
Haha... I actually WISH I had a camper van right now!!! The ignorance of the OP deserves to be stereotyped. Like deviate said, they're stereotypes for a reason. And, truly there are just as many exceptions to the stereotype, but not in this case. Yeah, life happens sometimes, but this kid CHOSE to be stupid. Oops I didn't feel like wearing a condom?? Oh, I was too lazy to pull out? The only "life happens sometimes" situation there is for the poor fetus that could be brewing in his chick's uterus. If anyone wants to end the stereotype, get educated and stop being ignorant. Period.
Haha I can have a dry scents of humor sometimes. Yep the kid is a dumb ass. Pull out or wear a condom!
LMFAO..... Maaaan, how did I miss that?!? I never miss a good sense of humor! This topic gets me all riled up. But I really am looking for a van to live in at this moment. Maybe I can start a new stereotype.....
I just went through the same thing, everything is fine on my end tho. When i was 18 or so i had 2 girls tell me that at the same time. I always keep thinking "it's for real this time, it has to be" " if she isn't pregnant i will never have sex without a condom again" ... food for thought . sex is for adults who can handle the responsibilities that come along with it