ok, so I'm in my early 20's and I just had this girl over, we've hung out for a while and she was all over me and I had an obvious boner and she knew it. We were just making out and what not and everything was cool, we later went out to eat and came back. Now when we came back we were doing the same thing, making out and she was basically dry humping me, then we went downstairs and we were making out again and she took off my pants and started to give me a blow job, and I couldn't get an erection! This girl is amazing looking and i've liked her for a while. Can any one help me! What is going on? And ive had sex/oral sex all that before with a few different partners
And just to clarify, i can get a erection when im making out with her, then when she went to give me a blow job I lost it. I'm stressin over this real bad now.
hmm maybe it was because you ate and got too full? maybe ask your doctor or look online? im sure this happens to guys more other than you think
Sounds to me like performance anxiety. Too stressed out and worried about doin a good job for her. Happens to me occasionally too. Best advice I can give is go down on her first and while you do, play with ur self to get it up. No one knows ur peter like good ol Palm-ala Hand-erson! Then when ur Revved up and Ready, let her take her turn.
You answered your own question - you're stressing about it too much. Sex is not just a matter of physical performance - in fact that's only a minor part of it. The high majority of success or failure is in the mind. You just need to relax & let what will happen happen in its own due time.
i appriciate the responses everyone. The thing is like I had a full hard on before, then it went away and she started giving me head and it just stayed soft. Anymore suggestions to help me get over this what seems to be a mental block?
Boys should always eat first, always. The evolution gods were punishing you for being sexist and (maybe unknowingly) guiding her to get you off first. Seriously, if you came first, would you even think of reciprocating? - or maybe call it a night? She could use some educating also. Now try the whole scene again with you all over her, nibbling then lapping. Watch old happy boy stand up and get engorged enough for a two hour stand. VladT has the right idea - you don't just lie there quivering while the gal works her majic, that's passive..... and that's wrong!
69 is a great idea....i always do that anyway because i like a womans ass on my face as often as possible!! But standing up isnt very relaxing anyway....ive never liked that position because i cant relax and get comfortable and get the same problem as you.....just say that you want to try another position...communication is the key....you'll be surprised how understanding she is
